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ill be turning this into a offical question soon :D
you have to sit down with her and talk about the good aspects and the bad aspects of the relationship and show her that the bad aspects out weigh the good and as time goes on it 's not getting better and at the same time your drifting further and further apart and that you think before it gets any worse you think it would be a good idea that you break off the relationship.just tell her that your sorry and you would like to end it on good terms.tell her that down the road she will realize you did the right thing,if she is a mature girl i'm sure she will understand.by her holding on to you and knowing it will never work is only wasting her time and yours.this is one of the things that young people go thrrough,we all have but eventually you come to terms with it that it's not the end of the world
Ok, if she's that attached then don't worry about hurting the paint. You're gonna hurt it anyways when you remove it..... anyways.
The best most mature thing to do, is do it in person. Explain your reasons, then let her go. Be as gentle as possible but be blunt. You must stand firm in your decision though. You have to be ready for whatever she does and you cannot get mad (within a certain exceptions).
I once was in your situation. However we only dated for 4 months and she was in love with me. Anyways, I said we needed to talk, I said everything, and let her ask any questions if she was confused about anything (my reasons and all), then I just let her go have her space.
ok I hav a few things that u should ABSOLUTELY NOT do. 1. don't say "it's not u it's me" or "it's not working out" those r the most cliché breakup lines EVER 2. don't be mean but get to the point. beading around the bush will just make her even more upset & 3. wutever u do... DO NOT hug her! she needs time to move on and thy will not help anything. plus it'll give her false hope thy u still like her just be straightforward and give her time before trying to be friends.
hope this helps
Abosolutely be honest and upfront with her. Tell her that the situation just isn't working out for you and that it's you and not her. Give her the opportunity to say what she wants without rushing her. Give her a hug and wish her the best of luck but whatever you do don't tell her that you love her or that you just know you'll get back together with her b/c that's just being selfish and will only keep her hanging on thinking she can do something to get you back.
Honesty is the best way to break up with someone, don't be mean but blunt. Don't try to be sympathetic or anything like that, that's the last thing anyone would want, just tell her why it is you're breaking up with her and let her go. Then all you need to do is give her some room to breathe. I wish you the best of luck and I hope I helped a bit :)
well i think that the best thing to do is tell her fae to face and be completley honest and once u tell her the truth she might be upset but give her a few days and she will be better again and if u want ya'll can still be friends so good luck!!:)
this is sad lol ive been one of the paint kind of girl haha well i think it shud make it better if u knew dis girl will hurt but den eventually will get over it so just tell her straight out it will hurt but time cures everything =]
Start with a break, so she gets used to the idea of not being with you, then let her know its better that way. That way your more likely to stay friends etc.
tell her step back chickaa i need some space an see other ppl she'll get over it lol sorry i got the attitude of a dude when it comes to relationships
just do it. you're not making it any better by waiting around. shes probably becoming even more attached as u wait to figure out how ur gonna do it
will girls dnt like being embarrassed so pull her tew the side and let her no how you fell try not to make a big dell or sceen
why dont you just let her go, dont spare her feelings if you dont want to be with her then leave her.. there is no easy way
=( jus be careful, she may reallly care... && if u want after you break up, you could always be there for as just a friend
You have to scratch it off and for all we know, that can hur the paint (with the paint being her, of course)
look i am a girl sometimes i can be like that .just tell her u need some space befor things turn out bad.
I'd say say it strait up and don't stay and try and comfert her shell get over it
lol just tell her how you feel ? if she doesnt qett it then ohh well , you tried .
don't be harsh but say that you still want to be friends
That's easy run from the bitch lol
lol paint can come of
chip her away!
yes very true
