Shouldn't he have asked me out by now?

ive been seeing this guy who is actually 10yrs older then me(plz dont critize, he doesnt act it).. we arent dating and we’re not together. but we do everything a couple does we go out to eat see movies and hang out every single day! i mean i practically live at his house.. i have keys and the garage code.. but he doesnt want to ask me out until he knows for sure if im in this with good intentions.. he says he wants to get to know me to make sure he can “invest” his emotions into me.. i mean we even fight like a real couple.. all of his friends say he should ask me out and i get a long with all of them, even the girls.. but my question is am i wasting my time.. its been 2months.. should he or shouldnt he know by now?

Answer #1

I think you should give it time,if ya really like the guy and ya wanna make something come of it.I think on the other hand you shouldn’t just be there for shits and giggles unless ya just like hanging out with him and just being friends.Age is just a number and it’s proven that a guy thats 22 is about as mature as a 17 year old girl(in most cases).I would say give or take a month or two and see how it goes.Sleeping with the guy is info,but unlike us we only know of this guy from what you tell us, and is he the type guy you think is just gonna keep ya hanging.I think you should see whats up and then over dinner be like i think we need to talk about us and see what he says.I hope this helped.Holla at me and let me know.

Answer #2

you sound just like me and my boyfriend were just friends this went on for 6 years befor we finaly started dating so what do you got to loose if you ask him out and he says no then just stay friends and if he finally asks you out thats your decission ..good luck

Answer #3

hmm well maybe he’s worried about age. 2 months isn’t really that bigger deal! It’s been a year for me and will still be another 3 years until me and my guy can go out because of age. OR he could just be trying to find some lame excuse so that HE doesn’t have to comit to something! You’ve got to be careful hunni that he’s not just using you. On the other hand his excuse could be completely true. I say give it some time but just don’t get your hope up too much and if he takes too long in your opinion(maybe wait another 2months or longer?) then just leave it and move on. Hope this helped hunni and good luck! x

Answer #4

I really think you are wasting your time. He wants to make sure your in it with good intentions? He should be asking himself that one! You fail to leave out an important detail. If youre sleeping with him. That info would really help.

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