Why can't I have him and friends?

My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 2 years now and everything is great. Although he dorms at his college, its still close by and I can see him pretty often. However, I don’t dorm and I commute to my college and I feel that its easier to meet people and make friends if you dorm at college like he is. Well the thing is, he’s just about the only person I hang out with lately. My girlfriends all went away to school so I can’t hang out with them obviously. And some of the people that I’ve met at my school that would be fun to hang out with are guys (they know I have a boyfriend). However, my boyfriend is really weird about me hanging out with any guy pretty much lol. I’m not sure what to do. One one aspect, I understand, I try to think about if he was hanging out with other girls but I think id have to understand because I trust him completely. However, the last time I hung out with a guy he thought it was really shady and we got into one of our only fights over it. I feel like its easier for me to make friends with guys than girls but that doesnt work out so well obviously so im just really confused about my situation. I love him to death but I almost feel restricted. I hardly go out, except for work and school and when I see him on weekends. Being in my house is driving me crazy lol. I need to go hang out with different people and make some friends but I feel so restricted. Is it not okey to hang out with guys if its completely on a friend level? I need some help pleasee…

Answer #1

ok who cares if only 13: i think tht like you said if he really loves you and knows you love him he will trust you and your concience will fell normal when you hang out with guys, if its easier to hang out with thm as long as they know you have a relationdhip with someone else thn go for it….

Answer #2

You and your bf need to have a talk and understand that he is allowed to hang out with girls if they are JUST FRIENDS, and you are allowed to hang out with guys. You should trust each other enough to believe that of anyone of your guy friends or his girl friends hits on you both, you will put them in their place and stop hanging out with them. That simple! if you can trust in each other to do that there shouldnt be a problem.

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