Should I let my boyfriend go to a Victoria's Secret Fashion Show?

My boyfriend recently got backstage and after-party passes from his friend to the Victoria’s Secret Fashion Show. He is going in a few weeks on the weekend, and he only told me this a few days ago because it slipped in conversation. I am kind of mad at him for wanting to go, but should I be concerned?

Answer #1

If he likes it why change him. Its what he wants.

Answer #2

Well if ur okay with it then y not let him go?

Answer #3

He!! yeah! sounds fun i wish i could go. if u guys have a trustworthy relationship then yes or if not ask if u could come along lol.

Answer #4

I would be mad, but im sure nothings going to happen

Answer #5

“Let” him? Way to sound controlling and jealous.

If you trust your boyfriend it shouldn’t matter if he goes or not. Him sitting there just looking doesn’t harm anything and certainly isn’t being unfaithful.

How many passes does he have? If he has one more why not ask to go with him as his date. Most men (faithful ones) love when their woman can be comfortable and have fun when there are naked/half naked women around them. It shows your confident in yourself and your relationship and that you can have fun.

Answer #6

I wouldn’t let him.

Answer #7

I am going to say, its a bit weird if hes not going with you. If its family its fine…friends, boys will be boys…but anyone else, weird.

Answer #8

you should go with him…must..

Answer #9

Personally, I wouldn’t like the idea of my boyfriend going either. It’s not a matter or faith and trust in him or in our relationship, I just wouldn’t be happy or comfortable with it and neither would he if the situation were flipped around. I wouldn’t go so far as forbidding it, as you don’t own him, I’d just tell him how I felt about him going, and the choice would be his.

Answer #10

Personally, I wouldn’t like the idea of my boyfriend going either. It’s not a matter or faith and trust in him or in our relationship, I just wouldn’t be happy or comfortable with it and neither would he if the situation were flipped around. I wouldn’t go so far as forbidding it, as you don’t own him, I’d just tell him how I felt about him going, and the choice would be his.

Answer #11

noo!!!

Answer #12

noo!!!

Answer #13

if he wants to go and that will make him happy. and you want to see him happy right? and yeah if you trust him, i see no reason why you shouldnt “let” him.

Answer #14

I understand why it would be bothersome but I would. I mean he cant really contact them. And hey why nt do a follow up w u as the model. Uk a lil foreplay ;)

Answer #15

It depends if you trust him enough.

Answer #16

It depends if you trust him enough.

Answer #17

Well since you have no control over him… you can’t “let” him do anything. However, if he’s going to watch a bunch of women in underwear walk up and down a runway…. yeah I can see why you’re not too happy about the idea. I think you should voice your concerns with it, because it is a jealousy thing which is natural. Use this to learn more about your boyfriend from the way he reacts. If he responds in a positive way good… if not… you might want to have a good talk with him…. anyways good luck. If all else fails, ask him to bring you back something. haha

Answer #18

Well since you have no control over him… you can’t “let” him do anything. However, if he’s going to watch a bunch of women in underwear walk up and down a runway…. yeah I can see why you’re not too happy about the idea. I think you should voice your concerns with it, because it is a jealousy thing which is natural. Use this to learn more about your boyfriend from the way he reacts. If he responds in a positive way good… if not… you might want to have a good talk with him…. anyways good luck. If all else fails, ask him to bring you back something. haha

Answer #19

Well since you have no control over him… you can’t “let” him do anything. However, if he’s going to watch a bunch of women in underwear walk up and down a runway…. yeah I can see why you’re not too happy about the idea. I think you should voice your concerns with it, because it is a jealousy thing which is natural. Use this to learn more about your boyfriend from the way he reacts. If he responds in a positive way good… if not… you might want to have a good talk with him…. anyways good luck. If all else fails, ask him to bring you back something. haha

Answer #20

Well since you have no control over him… you can’t “let” him do anything. However, if he’s going to watch a bunch of women in underwear walk up and down a runway…. yeah I can see why you’re not too happy about the idea. I think you should voice your concerns with it, because it is a jealousy thing which is natural. Use this to learn more about your boyfriend from the way he reacts. If he responds in a positive way good… if not… you might want to have a good talk with him…. anyways good luck. If all else fails, ask him to bring you back something. haha

Answer #21

you should go with him nd sayy “daamnn shes cute” to every girl that walks by, you’ll mind f*ck him (x

Answer #22

I don’t think you should be concerned. Him going for a weekend to look at pretty women probably isn’t as bad as you think. Telling him that he can’t go might make you come off as very controlling of him, and you probably don’t want that. There’s nothing wrong with voicing your concerns though, you could talk it out with him, it might make both of you feel better about the ordeal. I’m sure he’d be happier if you were comfortable with him going, and you’d be happier if he was more assuring.

Answer #23

Why the hell would he want to go? I don’t think it’s right when you’re in a relationship with someone and you look at other people in some kind of romantic or sexual way, I’m not saying he is. I’m just confused, why does he even want to go? You can’t make him do anything, just talk to him about it and if he understands your point of view, he may or may not change his mind.

Answer #24

of course. i am the jelous type, acctually very very jelous. but i have come to learn that theyre women who show off their bodies and are virtually ment to look at. plus most likely he will never date one so go ahead let him

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