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Should I move across the country for my boyfriend?

Well me and my b/f have been dating for almost two years. He wants to move across the country to work in LA. I think it’s great, and I’d love to go with him. We are eleven years apart, and I’m still in college. I really don’t want to leave since I’m so focused on what I want right now. He says he understands, and that he will wait for me to go when I’m done with school next year. He also told me he wants to have at least one kid by the time he’s 35. He’s 31. I don’t know if it’s because his brother just had another baby, or what. But, he keeps bringing it up. We both work in medicene, and I’ve tried get him to think about us being on call. He says we can deal with it, and make it work. I never really wanted to have kids, but if he really wants it, I’ll do it for him. But, now’s not the time. He’s really being persistant about all of this. What should I do?

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Well he can’t force you to have kids! It is up to you. If you don’t want to have kids don’t, but when you think about, kids are a beautiful thing. Something you can adore when they get older. You have to talk to him about it or he will get even more persistent.

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