What should I do about my boyfriend mentally abusing me?

Answer #1

Break up with him. You know you don’t deserve to be treated like crap and he doesn’t deserve to act that way towards you. No matter what he says, if he cared about you, he wouldn’t do it.

Answer #2

Emotional abuse can be worse than physical in some cases. Please get yourself out of this relationship, seek help from a friend, your parents, a family member, a school counseler, or a therapist if you need to. Mental abuse is never okay.

Answer #3

Break up with him noone needs that crap you can find so much better.

Answer #4

Get out of the relationship. He’s not going change…

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Answer #5

BREAK UP WITH HIIIIIIIIIMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM!!! theres no need to be with someone who hurts you, and if you dont break up with him ,you’ll never find anyone who wont. there are so many great wonderful people out there that could treat you how you deserve to be treated, because you ARE GREATTTTTTT! and you should be happpy ;)

Answer #6

Definitely BREAK UP WITH HIM ASAP! guys mentally abusing girls is NOT right at all, and causes a lot of damage to the girl, and he’s most likely not going to change so get rid of this boy right away! NO ONE deserves to be abused, especially not you, so do something about it!

Answer #7

yeah what she said. if u cant do it right away, u can go on the internet nd learn more about it if u want. Threres things that can help u. No matter wat anybody says emotional abuse is the worst abuse beacause it leaves everlasting scars.

Answer #8

It would be easy for me to say. “break up with him!” But ultimately you are the one that is enabling him to abuse you by staying in the relationship. Basically you are a victim not because you want to be but because you CHOOSE to be. There are two types of people in this world the brave, and the cowards. Both you and your boyfriend are cowards him because he toys with you like the tiny man he is. And you because you let him toy with you. BE THE BRAVE, YOU alone can turn this around. Turn in to the brave, the fighter and survivor and never be anyone’s victim again. You can do it. Trust me been there done that. All you have to do is believe in yourself and if it helps I believe that you can do it.

No one can hurt you with out your consent, so stop giving him permission to abuse you. Get out while you can because now it’s only words later on who knows what he may do and if you’ll be able to survive it. Take care girl, if you don’t take care of yourself no one will do it for you. Only you are with yourself 24/7 not mommy or daddy or anyone else can be with you all day to make sure you’re ok. So put yourself and your well being first.

Answer #9

talk to him, and tell him to stop it, nd tell him how it effects you, if he doesnt listen, or change then break up with him!!

Answer #10

i super like your advice..i can say that i am a COWARD..i hope i can be BRAVE enough to face this..it’s hard to let go of 7 years..for those years, i sacrifice my happiness being with friends but when i am with him i am happy also..it’s just that sometimes i really long for my friends even if just once in awhile..right now we are not in goods terms & he is away from me since last year because he worked abroad..he gets mad when i went to a place and he didn’t approved it..i just love this guy because despite of his insecurity & jealousy i can really feel his love & he has good qualities also that i like..i am just waiting for signs right now..i know i can be strong enough to face this thing..

Answer #11

i super like your advice..i can say that i am a COWARD..i hope i can be BRAVE enough to face this..it’s hard to let go of 7 years..for those years, i sacrifice my happiness being with friends but when i am with him i am happy also..it’s just that sometimes i really long for my friends even if just once in awhile..right now we are not in goods terms & he is away from me since last year because he worked abroad..he gets mad when i went to a place and he didn’t approved it..i just love this guy because despite of his insecurity & jealousy i can really feel his love & he has good qualities also that i like..i am just waiting for signs right now..i know i can be strong enough to face this thing..

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