Boyfriend issue.

I have been dating the same guy for over a year and a half, he is talking about moving in together, and to be honest I don’t know if I am ready for that. I’m 18 and a freshman in college. And now there is all this talk about having a baby, I am so lost… anyone have any advice?

Answer #1

Moving in with your boyfriend is a big step and if you’re not ready, you shouldn’t do it. It’s going to change your relationship with him in a million little ways, some good, some not so good and if your relationship isn’t strong enough yet to handle the strain, it’s going to make it fall apart. Let him know how you feel and that while you love him and want to move in with him, you’re just having some doubts and he needs to be patient with you. You are just trying to do what’s best for both of you in the long run. Who is talking about you having a baby? You or him or family members? I would put the brakes on having a baby until you were moved in together for at least a year or even better, married. Don’t put pressure on yourselves to do it ALL now. You two have the rest of your lives together to move in together, get married and have a family. Finish college first.

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