What do you think of a boyfriend giving his girl a present for Valentine's Day but she not giving one back?

Lol thats wht i told them!

Well I got my bf something but he didn’t give me anything, u wanna know why? He said cuz gifts mean nothing, its what’s in ur heart that counts

I really love that! But Cody got me an open heart collection necklace… IDK what the heck to get him? lol maybe something for his car?

Yeah I don’t like just haveing to pick one thing out, its always so hard :-) I’m sure the necklace u got was beautiful

That’s fine, the love she has for you in return should be enough and also her being faitfull.

i will definately upload a picture! :D

Cool I wud love to c it :-)

k it up! ill post a real one soon!

I really don’t agree. That makes me think of the women that say “my wedding day,” when they should be saying, “our wedding day,” it makes me sad. I say don’t worry about it if you weren’t expecting anything but got something, it’s okay to get them something late or just show them how much it means to you, but just saying it doesn’t matter and you don’t have to give a gift because Valentine’s day is for girls is just inconsiderate and selfish, really.

I actually like to celebrate whites day. Valentines day the girl give the guy chocolate or some homebaked good so show her love and affection then when white’s day rolls around, the guy give the girl something white to show that her feelings are returned. i think its different and more interesting that way. :P

I guess it really depends on the situation. My boyfriend and I both work. On top of work, I go to school, then come home and have dinner ready, and the entire house cleaned. He tells me that Valentines day in his opinion is for the women. A day to apreciate them and to show them that you apreciate everything you do for them. But, I guess if you arent in a serious relationship, you would just have to look at it outside of our shoes.

I am in a serious relationship, the both of us hates the holiday. The fact is that we both work equally hard at our relationship, I guess, and we show our appreciation whenever we can, rather than trying to concentrate it into one day. I can see your view, I know what you’re saying. You work hard, and sometimes there just isn’t time for him to make it up to you, so he takes Valentine’s day as a good opportunity. I think you’re right, it’s different for everyone, but just saying the “day is more for the ladies,” says, “guys don’t need anything, we just need stuff.”

Valentines day is an invention of candy industries and flower shops. :-/

its fine not to give something.. but its also good to give alil love back! :) it doesnt have to be big but something from the heart!

well if you have not made up your minds before hand dont be surprised if she doesnt give you anything….

if you want my opinion, if she has not thought of at least something nice to give you (a card at least) then she doesnt care O_o

i mean youd think about what to give the person at least a week beforehand

i think its okay, i agree with felican valentines day is more for the ladies but she could always give you something else that isnt a present you can see, just experience. and its the thought that counts as well

You might want to hover over people’s names to get their bios before you answer. You give good answers, but they can be slightly irrelevant because you’re talking to the girl that seems to be worried that she didn’t think to get her guy anything, and telling her she must not care :P She obviously does if she thought to post the question, she was probably trying to figure out what to do about the situation. Again, you give good answers, It would just be better if you knew who you were answering to. Also, I like this face O_o

i agree, my husband hates gifts. but he lovs to shower me with them. i got him a necklace he took it back. but u could have a guy who likes gifts and things. so maybe think of him next time.. or come up with some idea of something u could do for him that he would like.

I dont think its abnormal, the gift is not something by which you show ur affection besides relationship cant be build on gifts so its ok. for me every day is v-day when i see my gal :)

no its the thought that counts if u love him or her u dont have to give them anything

Better to give that to receive

Well I think its wrong, for the guys to be buying, Things for his GF or wife. And she gives him nothing. But of course women are gold diggers, who think they Deserve anything & everything their entitled.