What do i say to my boyfriend?

He’s always commenting on other girls pictures.

Answer #1

Yeah auto-matic dump that is such a put down I would be like if you like their photos so much why dont you just go out with them. If you’re not goin to give me the same respect why are we even together?

Answer #2

good point but i now he can change and he’s better than that. he thinks everything is not such a big deal, like its just a comment. But yeah its a comment but, its to another girls. And i dont wanna break up with him yet.!

Answer #3

My boyfriend and I went through something like that, he kept commenting about how other girls look good, how I should dress like them, how their makeup looks good (I’m a t-shirt kind of girl) and it made me feel like complete cr@p. And I love him so I never broke up with him. BUT we fought a lot because he didn’t see the big deal with always commenting other girls or trying to change me and envying what other guys have. After all the fighting, we both decided to try our best to keep calm and talk through it. I talked to him about respect, how I love everything about him and appreciate everything that we have and didn’t constantly look at other guys, comparing and putting him down. See, he was never like this before so I kept faith. I tried letting him see things from my perspective too to help hm understand how I felt. After a long long long long discussion and talk he finally understood how I felt and understood that it was disrespectful to me. With relationships, communication is key. Talk to him make him understand, if he refuses to even try, then he really is not worth all the cr@p at all, because it shouldn’t only be you trying and fighting for things, and it shouldn’t only be you who respects him. All these things have to go both ways for a relationship to be healthy.

Answer #4

tell him exactly how you feel about it. if there just normal freindly comments, then its probably not worth arguing about, and he might just have lots of feale freinds or like talking to them. but if they get sexual or you feel like something may be up, talk to hm bout it and tell him you want t to stop

Answer #5

i wouldnt consider breaking up with him just yet but omg that is quite a big deal definitly say it to him and going by his response..like if he says well i dont see that as a big deal,definitly dump!!! but he might just say i didnt realize it bothered you il stop..if hes commenting on girls pics like that were he knows its possible for you to see it,who knows what hes doing behind your back

Answer #6

u start commenting on other boys’ pictures….he’ll get a lesson

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