Boyfriend becoming Abusive

Is there anywhere else you can go to? Friends or Family…sounds like you need to disappear for a while, like everyone else says call the cops anytime he is making you feel threatened, or you feel uneasy.

Dont ever let some guy touch you or talk to you like your nothing. You dont need that crap in your life especially because you have children. Go to the cops, tell someone dont wait around for him.

well im proud of you getting the restraining order most girls wudnt have the guts to do that..but yea you shud go to the police and let them know that he is still coming around and I hope things get better…

I think you should go to the cops and let them know. They can make it so he will never see you again. Then again I know you must still love him but he as no right to abuse you and being with child he deserves the worst. I wish you the best of luck

Do you know the terms of the retraining order? Like how close to you or your residence can he be? I’d call the cops every single time you think he’s too close…you can’t run outside with a tape measure, but you can make a guess.

Is there a place you can go, other than where you are? A Woman’s Advocacy center in your town, that could perhaps help you?

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My mum went through an abusive relationship and it took her years to get out of it. Out of anything else she wishes she had left way earlier than she did. We went o stay in a Womens Aid home nearby. Its a special place that cateers for women and children who have left there husband/partners ect and need a safe place to stay.

Im sure theyre be a similar thing in your area. Also abusive relationships just get worse. Honestly get out while you have enough self esteem, enoough pride and enough energy becasue if you dont he’ll slowly work you down and down until you rely on him and you need him and thats when it takes guts to leavex good luck x :)

When I was 15 I had an abusive boyfriend. After I found out I was pregnant things got worse. He decided when I was 4 months pregnant that he didn’t want the baby and he caused me to have a miscarriage. After that I finally had enough respect for myself to leave him.

I am proud of you for protecting yourself. Don’t ever let him hurt you again…if he does things will only get worse. If he violates the restraining order have him arrested. Do whatever you have to to protect your baby and children.

Good luck :)

Call the police

Call the cops.

bust him in his sh!t wit a baseball bat and let him no you aint havin that sh!t and that he need 2 get his god damn mind rite

call the cops !

you need to call the police. If you love yourself or your child, be safe