Why does my boyfriend argue with me over the dumbest things?

well tonight everything was going great until we were getting ready for bed and i decided to share the bathroom while we were getting ready. we brushed our teeth wash our faces but he got irritated at the fact that i was in there. but when im in the bathroom he just comes in there and does his stuff but i dont get iritated or mad. why can he do it but i cant?

Answer #1

oh and he proceeds to get mad after the fact and i just left the room and am now sleeping on the couch.

Answer #2

Hunny, he’s a male.

Answer #3

Is it just this one or are the arguments a common daily occurrence? I am a guy and also find it intrusive and rude to have the person I am living with come in and feel like is a together time. We spent the day together so I wanna have that moment alone like it has been growing up. A particularly bad one is when you are taking a shower and your significant other think they can get in there too uninvited. The reason he does it to you is because you have not made it a point that it bothers you or maybe you think is ok with somebody coming in and out.

Answer #4

Because he’s male, and we males are what most people call, “stupid”. We act irrational at all times, whether something is truly wrong or we’re bored.

Answer #5

I guess he wanted his privacy for some reason. Just offer to let him have as much alone time as he needs to finish his business.

Answer #6

fist of all, like i always say, the man should be sleeping on the coutch (unless its his house) and he might just be that way, i do it to my boyfriend all the time. maybe he just wants your relationship to be perfect (which there is no such thing) and it just reaults in arguments, or maybe he was used to drama before you and picks fights because he misses it, i do it (and i know its extremely wrong)

Answer #7

Maybee hes trying to tell you that he dont like you anymore or that hes afraid of losing you

Answer #8

Because they feel they always have to b right

Answer #9

it depends what he’s arguing with you about, but it may be because he cares for your safety or something?xx

Answer #10

maybe you guys have some serious issues to work out. try to sit down with eachother and talk about what is bothering you two. good luck.

Answer #11

Have the arguments always been over dumb things? Or has he just now started arguing with you.If he has just started arguing with you over dumb stuff then that is way of trying to get rid of you. But then again it could be that he is just immature :).

Answer #12

Have the arguments always been over dumb things? Or has he just now started arguing with you.If he has just started arguing with you over dumb stuff then that is way of trying to get rid of you. But then again it could be that he is just immature :).

Answer #13

Have the arguments always been over dumb things? Or has he just now started arguing with you.If he has just started arguing with you over dumb stuff then that is way of trying to get rid of you. But then again it could be that he is just immature :).

Answer #14

true. alot of us are like that, even me. i fight with my girlfriend over the smallest and stupidest things from time to time… but its normal.

Answer #15

no hunny he should be sleeping on the couch

Answer #16

no hunny he should be sleeping on the couch

Answer #17

My bf constantly rubs mine

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