How do I get my ex boyfriend back?

I’m going to have to be direct here because there is a fundamental point being missed. First off, a spell is not going to do anything. Now that that’s out of the way, you need to think about what you are saying. This man cheated on you and was emotionally unsupportive during your initial relationship. Now he’s acting nice because you have a child together. He is currently in a relationship with someone else, and you must accept that his happiness may be attributed to the fulfillment he is getting from that relationship, as opposed to the interactions he has with you.

The next point is that you would be encouraging him to cheat again - this time on the other girl - if you tried to drop hints that you want him back. If he took the bait and you treated him splendidly for taking you back, you would only be reinforcing his unfaithful behaviour. I am not going to tell you what to do because this decision has nothing to do with me. All I ask is that you examine the consistency of your thoughts because I think you’ll find that you haven’t thought this through. Yes, you may have feelings for him, but do you think getting him to dump his current girlfriend for you is going to lead to a wonderful new relationship between the two of you? Or is it possible that 10 months down the track another girl will do the same thing and steal him from you? I would recommend giving yourself some time to think thinks through because encouraging him to cheat again is only going to reinforce his unfaithfulness.

*thinks = things :P.

I agree with Yummeh. I think if its meant to be it will be. Just focus on your baby. Get him outta your mind and move on. If he loves you that will drive him nuts and he will eventually come to you. At which point you will be the one in control. And you will have to choose if you want him again. Tell him what you want and make it clear you will not be made a fool of. Be strong. Head high and confident. That is the most attractive thing in woman. IF he doesnt come back then oh well.. Your strong and moved on. You will love again

Just be happy that’s he’s happy and respect his relationship, be the bigger person. At least he’s not being an absent father figure to Remus.

go up to him and pour your heart and feelings out for him and express your love and tell him that you want him to work on certain areas he needs work on for you