Boyfreind advice

This is NOT jealousy. This is the start of something that WILL get worse…hes showing starting to show signs of being controlling! It might be flattering to have someone suggest on what you wear, but forcing you to wear the types of clothes that he solely prefers is one of the signs of a controlling relationship.

He doesn’t want to change you, he just wants you to be under his control…and he’s willing to chip away and destroy your self-esteem to gain control. If he’s controlling every decision, talk about it immediately and make sure he understands that there should be a balance between you and him. Remind him that a relationship can only take place when two people cooperate with each other, not when only one person does so. Make sure he understands your rights, and that you have the freedom to assert your privileges. If not, ask yourself if you should be with him in the first place! You deserve to stand for yourself and earn respect.

be youself because before both of you were together,he likes you the way you are.so dont chnge because of him unless you are comfortable with his requests.he’s too jealous because he loves you tho.thats a good thing but you have to be firm in deciding yr life. just be yourself because the one who loves you wont mind.

the first thing you need to do is tell him straight out how you feel, because if you dont put a stop now it might get worst(trust me I’ve been through it before)…I cant tell you exactly what 2 do but if your boyfriend doesnt respect you or treats you how you are suppose 2 b treated and doesnt accept you 4 who you r…then He’s really not worth it is he

sweety trust me my ex-husband is old fashioned and I got divorced because he is stubborn and always tellin me what to do im not his slave or whaever he thinks / its okay to love him but does he love you as much as you do? is he going to giving up things like you did? think about it again its not worthy to suffer from simple things that he is not willing to accept you for who you r. good luck

It may not be jealousy so much, he may just be more uptight (or) old-fashioned than you. But on the other hand, he can’t tell you what to do.

he CANNOT tell you what to do tell him how you feel