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Okay… Im turning 13 mar. 18th and im “trying” to plan my party…but one of my so called “best friends” is pressuring me to let her bring all her cousins and her frineds and ummm the whole jr. High!!! Shes kinda a slut it seems to me and now that I foud that out about her …should I still invite her and if I do how can I tell her the final answer so she doesnt keep asking me??? Ps.. The final answer is no!!!

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Answer #1

wow, nine more days and you’ll be ok to be here on this website. how did you slip under the radar?

Answer #2

I think you should tell her you don’t want anyone you don’t know to come to your party. and she can come but if she cant respect that tell her to take a hike

Answer #3

You can tell her “only the people I persoanally invite can come” and only invite any of her friends if you want. Otherwise you have to make a boundary and say something like “if you keep trying to make me invite your friends I’m going to have to not invite you because I don’t appreciate you pressuring me when I said no once already”. Or make a bargain and tell her she can bring only ONE friend of hers that YOU approve of…

I don’t see why you can still invite her unless you really think she will try to “sneak” some of her freinds to your party or if you just don’t want her to come for whatever reason. It may seem really unfair to your friend if you don’t invite her.

Let me know how it goes :)

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