Bored of my life

I am 13, and I feel like the ugliest, fatest, flat chested, flat butt person ever… I look ok if I look in the mirror, but when I am around other people I feel awfull. What can I do to feel better about my self

Answer #1

just remember that God says you are wonderfully made, and He loves you no matter what. He made you for a purpose. and if you want real encouragement on yourself physically or menatally or whatever, I suggest you go to lifespace.cc ! =)

Answer #2

just remember that God says you are wonderfully made, and He loves you no matter what. He made you for a purpose. and if you want real encouragement on yourself physically or menatally or whatever, I suggest you go to lifespace.cc ! =)

Answer #3

odds are you probably aren’t any of those things. this time should pass you. also, you’re 13, you’re still maturing, most guys don’t mature till there eighteen, I think girls is fifteen or 16 or 17, but don’t quote me. so it’s okay.also, do you feel this way because people make fun of you, or is this all what you think?

Answer #4

If it helps, I think most of us have been through those stages and we got through it all ok. Take away all mirrors, and try to stop thinkng about you. Direct your energy outwards, and maybe concentrate on how you can help people who are more in need. When I was 13 I took a volunteer job on saturdays with underpriveleged kids and before long, I forgot about what I looked like or how I felt :)

Answer #5

I agree with all the above, Or you can change some of the things you don’t like about yourself. And you can buy products to make yourself look bettter. If it bothers you that much.

Answer #6

Don’t worry, enjoy life, and Don’t cover all the mirrors in your house, I did that when I was anorexic, but it made me worse, because I became self contious aswell, If your that worried find a nice out fit and accesorize! It will draw attention away from your body, and Do something with your eyes, it helps, trust me.

^_^ Good luck!! <3

Answer #7

you just feel self consious, I feel like that too. just try to ignore those feeling and highlight the stuff you are good.=)

Answer #8

quit thinking about what you look like and have fun with your life. it dosnt matter what people think about you.

Answer #9

Yes most of us have been at these stage in life! Maybe its the people your hanging out with that makes you feel this way? when I was in 8 th grade I hanged out with all the pretty skinny girls and I use to feel so fat and ugly around them and when I wasnt around them I felt ok about myself. so maybe that is the problem. But dont say stuff that will put you down. Try this.. everytime you look in the mirrior say 3 things about yourself that you like! It helped me

Answer #10

I feel the same way, but I don’t care I just live my life!

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