Bleeding Heart part II

This question is for the ones who read my part 1 of bleeding heart. My man is in jail he a VOP plea bargin, To serve his time in jail and get it over with. With all I have been through with him this last year and a half, I like him being in jail. I love him with all my heart and now I’m faced with a decision “do I give him the chance to do right and stop his cheating with this Ho (whom is married) ? I told him that since he got this Herpes from this ho, I don’t trust him any longer but I still love him like no other. It’s been 5months since I had sex with my man. I recently was approched by a guy that’s liked me for a long time and asked me to go out with him. I want to but I don’t think I could relax enough around him because I can’t help but think of my man and how much I love him. This other man finds ways to be where I’m at or run into me. He is soft spoken,and looks at me with gentle eyes. He touched my hand tonight and my heart stopped and my body tensed up, I guess because I wasn’t expecting it and I haven’t touched or held by my man for 3months, I miss my man sooo much and he tells me that when he gets out we will move from this county and get a new start. This other guy tells me not to put my health at risk because if my man doesn’t change,then I’ve been exposed to herpes. I want to go out with him but I’m scared. Is it wrong that I think of taking this guy up on his offer?

Answer #1

do not give him any chance just get up and move on with your life, a cheater is always a cheater trust me.

Answer #2

people can change,, There are a lot of people that have cheated before and changed to stay with there loved ones. I know quit a few that have cheated and there love and marriage is stronger then ever because they got through it together.. He would have to regain your trust if you do give him another chance.. But since he does have herpes from her.. I dont know if I would give him the chance. What would have happend if you did not find out that he had them until he gave them to you… He was risking putting your health on the line to stay with this woman.. We can’t make the desicion for you but we can help you with making up your mind.. Is your marriage to him worth him getting a second chance.. If you love him so much… Tell him that you want to seperate until he can prove to you that he will be faithful but the only thing wrong with that is you have to remain faithful to him.. I am sorry I can’t tell you what to do but look in your heart and think about everything that you could lose and everything that happened then make you choose..

if you need to talk more fun mail me I am almost always here…

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