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How big of an age difference is too big?

I am 19 and he is 34 (I know big age difference!). He comes quiet often to the cafe where I work. We joke around like, I do with many of the customers. We started flirting a couple months ago, but still very small amount and I did not think too much about it. Until the other day, as he paid for his food he handed me his number. Part of me knows there is a huge age difference and to walk away now. The other part thinks I’m very mature for my age and he seems to be a little immature… can we meet somewhere in the middle mentally? What should I think of this? I’m not looking for you to make up my mind for me, but maybe just some kind advice. Thanks!

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Answer #1

In fact, age doesn’t mean anything. But for me, i can only accept the one ten years older than me. But i do not exclude the situation that i really likes him. It is your own choice, just follow your heart!

Answer #2

That all depends on your own personal preference. My parents are 21 years apart which is a lot, but my dad doesn’t look or act that much older than my mom and he isn’t a weirdo or anything haha. I just think it’s weird when people are at different stages in their lives like a middle schooler with a high schooler or a high schooler with a college student. If you think age isn’t a factor then go for it, it’s totally up to you. Would I date a 34 year old? No. But this isn’t about me, it’s about you.

Answer #3

im all for age dosent mean a thing cause im 19 and my bf is 26 but thats a hugeeeee age difference and even with me and my bf the age gets in the way alittle bit…. but everyones different but you two are in two completly different parts in your life and in a way it makes me question is he with you cause your young or does he really see something there you know… but i dont think age is a reason to be like ahhh im not gonna try like i think if you really like him then go for it dont let people be like ewwww shes so young and hes old hahaha like dont let peoples opinions effect how you feel….just go with what feels right

Answer #4

i ment it would make me question if he likes you cause your young ahhh sorry im getting ahead of myself hahaha

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