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me and my boyfriend are in a long destance relationship and I reele care 4 him and the way he talkes abt me to other people show how much he cares abt me but he recenty started collage and he get a lot of homework..hjomework that takes up most of his time..im trying to support him so ill tell him its no biggy go do your how but it reele kills me what if its gunna be like this all the time?? I don’t think I cud take the no comunication thing until the next time we see btw that for thanksgiving please help ill return the favor I promise

Answer #1

Well I think you should tell him how you feel about this. He needs to learn how to balance things out, like have time for you and school. If things dont work out then break up. Long distance relationships are difficult to manage, and they could end very badley. Honestly I think you should end it soon before it gets worse. I hope I hepled.

Answer #2

well I think you should give him a chance.. hold in ther and it will pay off in the end. he probly loves you a lot and I wish I had a girlfriend that could hold by me and help me thorugh. good luck

xx

Answer #3

long distance relationships are hard. But if when he is free try a msn web cam talk, OR talk about what your gonna do when you do see eachother…But maybe set some time aside of one another so you feel closer and in touch even if he is far away.

Answer #4

I think you can do it his wor for college will be done soon. don’t worry to much abt it he probably knows that you want to spend time with him.

Answer #5

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Answer #6

long distance is hard but if the love is strong you can make it… best bet is maybe go see him and help him with his homework and spend the nite with him im sure he will love that just make sure he does his homework so you can do that more for him maybe cook him dinner if you love him im sure evrything will work out fine

Answer #7

I think all you can do is try and keep up with him and if he cares enough to keep up with you make it work somehow

Answer #8

like what everyone else is saying, you should set at least ONE specific time, where every day, or every week, you make a specific time for eachother

Answer #9

I have seen many lond distance relationships fail because of lack of comunication so try to find like one or two hours aday where all you do is talk to eachother. one hour a day and yu should be feeling better because thats your time alone.. I hope I’ve helped…thanks for your advise

Answer #10

If he’s taking on activities along with the homework,tell him how you feel so he can change his schedule so he has some time to spend it with you,if your able to have him put you on speaker when he does his work that way you guys can talk while he’s working.

Good Luck :)

Answer #11

Yeah, homework, is just another name for a chick. He’s deff cheating on you I have no idea how you haven’t figured it out by now.

Answer #12

I don’t do long distance relationships. Mainly because, you won’t know if he’s cheating. Maybe you should see other people.?

Hope I helped. Thanks for answering my question.

Answer #13

hmm.. well, if he’s in collage, he will have spring break, and exams, etc, so im sure there must be some spare time he will have for you if he just started, it may seem like a lot now, but you may just have to get used to it if you believe he is worth waiting for, then by all means, wait for him, the time will come btw thanks for your advice

Answer #14

long distance relationships are difficilt. Its depends on how committed both of you are to each other in order to work. Your problem does not seem to have a time frame because he is away for college and your are some where else. I wouldn’t advice going to his school just becuase he goes there too. But, find a way to be closer to him that allows you to remain true to yourself and your ambitions. Hope it helps

Answer #15

tell him that you guys should ( like others have said) set out some time for eachother

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