Best way to tell a guy you like them?

TEXASKIMMIE, I WASN’T GOING TO DO IT ON THE COMPUTER! GEEZ

I got it the first time you said it wasn’t the way to go

It’s very “chicken-ey”. Don’t write a letter, it’s so first grade. DO YOU LOVE ME? CHECK YES OR NO type of thing.

Look him in the eye, and say you have started developing feelings for him. Ask him if he feels the same way. Also, tell him that you want to do it this way so everything is up front so your friendship doesn’t get weird if he doesn’t feel the same way. If he doesn’t feel the same way, are you going to be able to continue the friendship if he doesn’t feel the same? Weigh your options first before you just go for it.

Awww…I recently just went through a similar situation however, I confessed my love to my friend on msn, through a note. (To make your note more romantic, write it in poetry. Believe me it works!) He was really shocked as well as happy and ask me a series of questions like how long I had liked him for? I know it’s a bit scary BUT, if you like him and don’t want to lose him, find courage and tell him that you like him. You might be really shcoked with the answers just as I was. =D GOOODD LUCKK!!!

Writing it in a note is NOT the way to do it. But if thats what you want to do, go for it.

I was thinking a letter. But it seems kind of like…chicken-ey?

tell him! even if he doesn’t return your feeling, he will know, and you won’t wonder what could have been. face to face is the best..tell him you need to talk to him, get him alone and tell him! like this, you will have hinted what you are going to say and he won’t be so terribly freaked out. good luck!

well, there is always writing a note…or inviting hom over to watch a movie, maybe an ushy-gooshy one, or better yet, maybe a scary one, and you could “be scared” with him. in my opinion, actions speak louder than words. hope this helped a bit allex

Well it wasn’t going to be like that. It was going to be a well written letter.

someone help! I like this guy, and a couple friends and I are going to catch a movie tomorow so I invitted him but turns out my best friend got a date to go with and I really like him so I was thinking of just telling everyone we are not doing it anymore and then make it be a double date? I’ve liked him for about a week and a half, and I’m trying to think of a way to ask him or just blankly tell him I like him, but he’s the funny/shy/natural kind of guy so if I told him, he’d freak out! so I was going to just kiss him, as I always say actions speak louder then words, but that might come on tooo strong, we are pretty good friends and I asked him who he liked and he didn’t tell me! he said he didn’t want mr I know, also he always eats lunch with his mates and he knows I always eat at “my spot” and for the past week or so he’s been coming to my table just to talk to me and my friend. HELPP!!

This is the same situation for me! I’ve known him for maybe four years, but I just started to like him last year (I think). We were friends, but then I started liking him more and more until it was a full-blown crush. We’re always laughing and hanging out together at school. The only problem is, I think he thinks I’m a complete and utter weirdo. My friends are always saying he’s totally into me because we talk a lot (only becuase I talk to him first!). I’m planning on sending him an email telling him my feelings (because I’m a total coward like that). I think you should tell him in a totally heartfelt email or letter. Just don’t send him a letter like texaskimmie’s example. The best of luck to you! If I don’t send my email by next week, I’m going to be so mad at myself! You go girl! Speak the truth and don’t hold back! Always remember, if he doesn’t like you, he doesn’t deserve you.

I believe that if you like a guy very much, but still have some possible doubt about your feelings towards him, you should tell him anyway. Maybe what you need is to go on a date or hang out more which will probably, in the long run, increase your confidence and help you determine whether those feelings are that you like him. It’s okay to tell a guy you like him even if you’re unsure if he likes you back. But it’s also better to get to know him a bit that way you feel secure and couragious when you tell him. Even if he doesn’t return those feelings, that doesn’t mean that he won’t admire you for stating them in the first place.

don’t tell a guy how you feel unless you are posative he feels the same. just recently I told a guy I have liked fir 6 years I liked him via im.I was so sure he liked me back well he told me he likes me as a friend. I felt mortified, take things in stride if he hasn’t asked you out by now he probably isn’t interested. don’t set urself up for failure or to get hurt. especially never tall a guy you like him if you don’t wanna ruin a great friendship or you c him frequently! and if a guy isn’t interested now he isn’t going to be in the future!!!

I don’t know but don’t get a girl friend to do it for you because sometimes they don’t believe your friend and prefer it coming from you.

charmedhunter this is what you do. I am going trough that situation too. Do NOT ever have a friend tell him. And when you go to tell him to dont use subtle hints. Guys dont understand them. You have to be straight and foward. Also, dont be afraid to tell him how you feel. I mean honestly what do you have to lose?? Anyway, tell him!!You maybe surprised!! Guys have a hard time showing their felings so who know he might just like you…;)

Okay, I have a probelm and I need help. I’ve known this guy for like a month, we met a competition and we’ve been talking online, I seem him everyday as well, because we go to the same physics tutor, and everyday, just before I’m about to see him, I get all these butterflies in my stomach. I’ve got it BAD I know. But see, the thing is, I dont know if he likes me in the same way that I like him. I was thinking of asking my friend to tell him how I feel, because I dont want to ruin our friendship. What to do?

I litterally going through that situation rite this moment. I think he likes me cause he always tellin me bout the girls he thinks he likes and someone said he was trying to make me jealous. But I so nervous because I fear rejection like bad! so help

Tell the guy, while you each are doing an activity you both enjoy!