best friend delema..

My best friend is preg. with her first child and im really excited for her. She is making me the god mother and everything.. but since the bitrth father wants nothing to do with her or the baby(mainly bc he’s a dead beat) she has been looking high and low for “love” and she’s the type of girl who will listen to what ever youtell.. im really concerned bc the guy she is with now isnt her type at all.. and I can tell he’s playin games with her head.. hes only telling her what she wants to hear.. and nothing out of his mouth is sincere.. his X girlfriend’s email me all the time saying that he wants them back adn that my bff means nothign to him.. I’ve seen the text from his cell to theirs.. and the emails.. I’ve showed her but she doesnt want to believe it.. she says hes the best guy to have ever walked into her life.. but seriously I dont know what to do or say to make her realize hes not the one for her.. is it even my place? am I over stepping my boundaries as her best friend?

Answer #1

i know this sounds mean but the only thing you can do is just stay out of it or you’ll end up losing your friend.The thing is she needs to she it for herself she can’t she what he’s doing to her through your eyes can she so wait in time and see.

Answer #2

Your best friend is going to choose her own path. It’s normal for her to not want to be a single mother, So, it isn’t surprising that she’s blinded by this guy. The best thing you can do for her is support her pregnancy and be there for her and the baby. One day she will possibly open her eyes and also see that this guy is not the right one for her, if that is the case. If he ends up breaking her heart the absolute WORST thing you could say to her is “See? I told you.”

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