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I became friends with this girl a year and a half ago. I’ve lived with her for about a half a year, but recently moved out since I’m moving to Europe for a while. I like her a lot and we get along most of the time; however, we have very different personalities. I tend to be very laid back while she is more emotional. She will flip out over the stupidest things most of which weren’t even my fault. She makes me feel like I’m dating her minus the benefits. She needs to know everything about me, where I go, and what I am doing. I hate the clingy and obsessiveness. I don’t want to lose her as a friend and when I talk to her, she doesn’t get it. I just feel like I’m on pins and needles with her all the time. any suggestions?

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I think you should just let it go since you.ll be moving away anyhow. you can keep contact with her by email and the distance wil help sort your relationship out. I don.t think she means to suffocate you so much. it.s more like what girsl do together, they talk about EVERYTHING all the time and this is what makes them feel closer. Maybe you could ask her about her friendships with other people just to know if yours is all that exceptional. I can tell you that it.s really nice for a girl to be able to feel close to a guy and talk about everything but it doesn.t mean you have to just take it without putting limits. you can say you don.t want to talk about it or that you.re tired and will talk about it later. you know, find ways to win your personal space. in the end friendships are always a bit of a negociation!!!

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