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Situation is I'm married to a decent man,.but there is a man from my past that I have tons of great memories with...its been ten years and somehow we always end up reconnecting-could b a few months or a few years, and the feeling is still there. It might help to add that this guy is the one I left to pursue a relationship with my husband. The first time we reconnected after I had gotten married, he told me I broke his heart that day, and also, if I had voiced that I wanted to be married that he would have married me.....I was crushed when he told me I broke his heart. He and I had a great relationship on and off for ten years.....I font know what to do. I love my husband, he has been here for me through a lot of things that other people would have run from, but I can't stop thinkin about this guy, and he concedes
So, one of the guys your in love with is your husband, and one is another man that makes you happy? I would say- stay with your husband. You married him for a reason, and if you left him, you would be leaving him for someone else. That's a terrible thing to do. Also, i'm sure he loves you and wants to be with you, so if you leave him he will be heartbroken. Have you tried talking to your husband about what you would like to change to have a decent relationship? What I have read from your reply to Cassie's post, is that the other man you love has had some memories with you. And you guys had a relationship on and off for 10 years? Well, how long have you been with your husband? You guys haven't separated yet, so i'd give it a longer try. Good luck :)
I actually know a few people that have alternative lifestyles, but for my husband and I, there has been a lot of miscommunication about our sex life. He prefers oral sex over everything, and I get left out. We have fought, argued, he has kicked me out in the middle of winter, he's left me.....its a mess. But he has a lot of good in him also, and I try to factor that in in all of this, but none of it makes sense
The guy I can't let go of-we have ten years of awesome memories and experiences.....things I've not shared with anyone else. I left this guy to date my husband, and he claims I broke his heart. We somehow find one another after long periods of time, and nothing has changed. My husband is a good guy...he's just not this guy.
The guy-not my husband, he always made time for me, made me feel important, called me beautiful all the time.....stuff my husband doesn't do. This guy is as freaky as me, but he never felt compelled to cheat on me. When we weren't seeing each other, we would still run into one another and the feelings just flood back.
i know how u feel hun im going tho it at the mo its hard but yer u can love 2 man at the same time.i ur happy with wat ur doing keep it going if not then end it babe.but do u really love this guy keep asking ur self that none can make it 4 u its up to u
Well I can say I personally have been in love with 2 women at the same time. Didn't really turn out all that well. I think I was the root for why my g/f broke up with me and I'm still trying to patch up the friendship with the other girl.....
Like Cassie said, it's kind of hard to tell from what you have said. I would say yes, it is possible to love two men at the same time. But there must be something about one of them that makes you love them more. Something special. Is there?
Of course its possible, polyamorous relationships arent that uncommen and they work for the people involved. Ive dated for than one person at a time and at that time in my life it worked and it was fulfilling from each angle.
You might feel like your in love with 2 men at the same time. But really, love is something you can only share with one person. So there is a chance you could love one of them, and feel lust for the other.
it is possilble to be in love with two men at the same time. it can be very confusing to. cause maybe one of them you are actually in love with and the other you jsut think you are.
yea i think its possible i guess u just u fall in love with a different person for different reasons like u like sumtin from one nd other from the other lol
No. I dont think it is possible to truly love two people at the same time. Is it possible to have relationships at the same time, yes. But true love, no.
I'm not terribly sure what the situation is here, are you in a relation ship with either of them? Or both of them? A little more detail would help.
yes it's possible. you can't who you fall in love with. your feelings come naturally. my sister is in the same situation
It's possible to love many people at the same time but doesn't make a very easy situation :/
no if u truely love them u will pick and dnt cheat r u will end up wit none of them!!!
Go with whoever will make you the most happy, you only have one life.
seems like your heart is GENERAL PARK you can put two men in it!
its possile but you have to be in love with oneo f them more.
i doubt, are you in love with two? or want sex with two?
dnt worry i am in loev with all asian womane LOLOLOLOL
im in the same boat...but about the opisate gender
i would say it is possible..
