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I have been seeing this guy on and off for two years now and he never seems happ with me. When Shakira came on the scence it was " babe dye your hair blonde look at Shakira! Oh babe look at that booty you need to eat more" With J Lo it's oh babe look at that tan you can do that she looks so good oh did you see her sweatsuit so tight oh you need that look. Babe your too skinny you need to eat more. Look at Janet's abs you can do that your so close. You need to ride your bike more cycle girls have the nicest legs. Some people see it as a suggestion but not me. He really makes me feels so ugly. Like I am not good enough for him and I am not at all attractive. He grabbed my hip the other morning and said "Ew nasty .. like grabbing a handle .. your too skinny" then he rolled over. I am 6 even 145 I have had a baby ( not with him )and he really makes me feel so ugly. He tells me I should model because I got what it takes but then turns around and says things like I am too skinny and that sort of thing. I feel like I am on an emotional roller coaster with him.I ask myself why I stay with him and I know it is because I am codependant and that of course when a guy meets me at first he will be nice to me but once we get together he won't be and why leave The guy I am with and go out find someone to tell me all this great crap to get my hopes up so he can slam me to the ground too? My guy says I can tell him if something is bugging me but when I try he hushes me " Tour De France is on babe shhh Preview guide hold on hold on"
WHAT THE HECK IS WRONG WITH ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Nothing is wrong with you! It's him...If he cant appreciate your beautiful self now, he never will. You should have a serious talk with him and tell him what his comments make you feel. And if he disregards your feelings, he's probably NOT worth your time anyway.(6ft even and 145? That's hot, and most girls would probably die to have those model looks).
Release the negativity and start living your life happily, and I'll guarantee someone will see your worth and treat you like a queen.
Good luck!
hey! i think you definitely need to talk to him. if he isnt satisfied with how you look or the person that you are then maybe you should try to find somebody who appreciates how u look. i know it feels like guys are all the same but who knows maybe after u dump this guy, you will go out and find a guy that thinks u are completely gorgeous and would do anything for you. well i guess i have said enough but i really hope i have helped and i wish u the best of luck.
this guy is a jerk.. i think you should sit him down and have a serious talk about this, he seems like the type of guy that doesnt like annoying talks, but this time its a must. if he doesnt pick up on your hints maybe hes not the guy for you.. good luck!!
Because he's just a shell of a man. Your beauty & you know it. He's just trying to tear you down. Find some one who is going to build you up!
I'd love to be 'too skinny!' :) And you are NOT the Beast, don't think like that!
No im the beast.But you know,I never had a boyfriend.-cries-
