How can we avoid staying close to a friend with strong perfume without being considered rude?

Some odors really trigger my migraine.

Answer #1

Honestly, telling her to chill out on her perfume is not rude if it’s causing you headaches or messing with your allergies/asthma. Just talk to her about it.

Answer #2

I would just be politely honest with them. If they are “friends” they will understand.

Answer #3

I have never really tried to talk to them for I am afraid that they might get offended. So usually I would find whatever excuses I could make to change chairs or tables with others, going to rest room even going home earlier.

Answer #4

If you tell them that you’re allergic to perfume, it shouldn’t offend anyone. Just say that you love their perfume, but it triggers an allergic reaction…

Answer #5

Always have coffee beans around. Cause it will knock the sense of smell

Answer #6

If I were your friend, I’d be much more upset by you always avoiding me than I would be by a conversation about chemical sensitivities.

Answer #7

I have a terrible time with perfumed anything. I hold my breath to go down the laundry detergent aisle (and have to buy “free & clear” detergent), and avoid people who use too much perfume or cologne like the plague.
Due to how irritating I find perfumes I’m a bit of a jerk about it, and its not uncommon for me to tell a stranger they reek, or tell them they smell like a cheap french wh0re. If I’m feeling polite I tell people that they used way too much smelly crap and its giving me a headache, please go away.

Answer #8

Thats a good idea..

Answer #9

And that is what I learned today. I will surely tell them honestly about my sensitiveness. Thank you Pumpking :)

Answer #10

And that is what I learned today. I will surely tell them honestly about my sensitiveness. Thank you Pumpking :)

Answer #11

Please don’t be confused by my temporary October nickname, Sri; I’m still Hayyim, lol!

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