I can honestly say I love both of my boys the same, even though they are completely different. I think the key is to be sure to spend as much time with each child as possible, and make sure you have one on one time as well. Sometimes one child will act up more and be more annoying because they are competing for your attention.
As a parent, we have to learn that each child is different and has different qualities to love, and we should love them based on these qualities that make them unique individuals.Each one of our children teaches us about love in a different way, so we love each of them differently, not one more than the other.
Naturaly as a human we bond with people that are like us. So that's why you have a "preference" over a child. It's the same way with teaching, you click with other children better than some but you still need to keep a fair playingfield, no matter how you feel.
It's sad that people do that...they aren't pets..they are human beings you brought into this world.So I would think treating them equally is the right thing to do.
Good question, I have the same prob, I kinda have the same prob I like one child better than the other, the trick is to treat them the same no matter how I feel
You Cannot!! lol You can however, catagorise their qualities and realise that its just the quality in focus that you like better and not the child.
Show them an equal amount of attention.