I'm 20 years old and he's my first and official boyfriend. However, being with him for almost 5 months is great but, to know about what he told me what he did with this close friend of his, I feel as if he isn't telling me everything. When his friend moved back into the state, he seemed okay to hangout iwht her...I wasn't expecting it for him to be "alone" with her either. Taking her places and regretfully taking her to a nail salon, then to his place. It made me utterly uncomfortable and I never heard from him all day either. After that I approached him on how I felt, but what proof he gave me that he didn't do anything doesn't make sense...and this was about a week or two ago as well. I don't want to go back on that, but I still have thoughts about what else he may have done, but I'm scared to ask and tell him that he might be hiding things, because that's evading his trust and he may think I don't trust him.
Being scared to this point, I hate complaining to him about my feelings, I feel as if complicated to him to make him hear these repeated feelings over and over. He always tells me that I can come to him and tell him what I feel, no matter how many times I do...but I just need tips or hints on what I should do if I feel he is hiding more than I know...please and hank you..
I honestly don't think it's a big deal but that's just because I'm not normally the jealous type. If my boyfriend wanted to hang out with his good friend who's a girl i wouldn't mind at all. Just because she's a girl doesn't mean he's gonna want to do her. You should just tell your boyfriend that you still feel uneasy about the whole situation... I'm sure nothing weird happened.
Unfortunately my answer may hurt...he is playing you,if he cared he would be with you and not her...sorry but you deserve better and what ever his excuse you need to tell him and only stay with him if he can prove he loves you...and he should want to prove it.You know this and its written within your question if only you can see it,wake up and deal with it,for your own sake.