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anybody have good advice for someone who

1 lost their dad about a month ago 2 doesnt know how to talk to their mom 3 can tell ONLY her four sisters that she is preg… 4 IS PREG

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Answer #1

  1. I have experienced this myself. im 15 but I lost my dad when I was 13 and my brother was 9. it was the hardest thing I’ve ever gone through, and hopefully will ever go through. as time goes on it wont be such a major thing in your life. you will start to feel happy again, and you wont feel bad for being happy or smiling. no matter what, your dad will always be your dad and he loves you so much. hes always going to be watching down on you and will be there to support you even though you cant see him. just know that there are people around you who love and care about you and you should accept their condolences. things will get better I promise. just remember your dad and keep him fresh in your mind. dont ever forget your dad.

  2. as for not being able to tell your mom, I still havent been able to conquer that. after two years without him I dont really talk to my mom about it. sometimes I break down in a fight with her about something related and then she understands how im feeling but all I can say is that your mom is just as devastated as you are. she lost the person she cared most about in this world. just like you did. she lost the person who she had babies with and she will never get him back. so be sympathetic to her and give her a break because dealing without her husband is going to be the hardest thing she’ll ever have to do. so admire her for that- is takes a strong woman to deal with that loss.

oh hun, im so sorry. you must be going through hell right now. I dont know what you should do about the pregnancy but you NEED to tell your mom. its better to have hr advice and her perspective on this subject. of course she’ll be mad and upset but she will hopefully understand and support you. good luck

Answer #2

I think “their” needed a change. “their”‘s dad would probably happy if his “their”(sons/daughters) would change for good, he would rest with smile on his face. how could you live without talking to your mom? our mom knows best and that’s true, like I’ve said “their” needed a change, so why not talk to your mom enjoy each others company, your dad would be grateful if that happens. So preggy girl, again, tell the truth not to only her sisters but also to her mom, she know what to do.

remember this: neighbors,classmates,colleagues would be gone and leave. but our family will be still there no matter what happens, family is the only treasure that’s priceless they worth more than a million carats of gold or diamonds.

love each other so everybody will be happy..hope it helps..

Answer #3

  1. He can see you. Make sure you make him proud of what he sees. Be something great, ‘cause this is what he wants more than anything else. Let him know he left behind a girl who can take care of herself and her family.

  2. You do not have to force yourself to talk. One warm hug would do. Just listen to her when she speaks, and gradually you will be the one who is always talking. You need your mum and there is no point in staying away from something that you need. Always keep in mind that she needs you, too. You and your sisters are her world, so stay close, pretty much close. Let her know she is loved, obeyed and respected and then she will understands you without having to talk. She already does understand you anyway.

  3. Telling your secrets to your sisters is not a problem, not a problem at all. Telling your secrets to ONLY your sisters is not a problem either. You should thank God for being surrounded with as many as 4 girls who loves you uncondionally. You have one person left to tell.. your mother. Don’t worry, she is not gonna kill her grandchild.

  4. I dunno about that. It’s a good chance to learn from your mistakes.

I care.

Keep your head high up Greetings from Egypt! Noblez Chavazelle

Answer #4

you have to tell your mother she will b mad but hten excited

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