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I am 19 years old and 7 months pregnant. The father cannot be apart of the babies life, I met him through my old painting job, I didnt know he was on drugs , I ended up hanging out with him and one thing led to another and next thing I knew, I was on the drug to. one night he took advantage of me, we ended up having sex, I dont remember it real clear. He became really creepy and started stalking me intil I moved away just recently. I havnt told anyone about me being pregnant but its to hard to hide it now. I need to tell my mom , I only have two months left if I carry full term. I think thats the first person I need to tell because I live with my parents still and I start a new job tomorrow, other then that I have no money saved up. I dont know what to do. I havnt even been to a doctor yet through this whole pregnancy because I have no insurance.

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Answer #1

you really need to talk to your mom. you have to let your family help you. I hope the relationship with your mom is good. See her advise you wont be able to handle things on your own. Talk to somebody who can help you. Just be make sure you dont make the same mistake again.

Answer #2

Talk to you mother and tell her the truth. It will be hard on the family but if you have a good relationship and are honest with her and are willing to work hard for yourself and your new baby things will work out. You do really need to go to the doctor. Pre natal care is very important. Make sure you are taking care of yourself during this time.

Most importantly stop dealing with this alone. Involve the people that care about you so that you get the support you need.

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