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So I think its really fun how you plan for something to be perfect and than everything and anythig gets in the way…right? For example: this summer I planned for it to be stress free and the best so far. Well so far…I have had to choose between two things I love, my friend has had the biggest boy problems all year [even now] which she always comes to me about, I havnt been doing to well in volleyball, my dad hasnt called in forever, I just found letters from him when he was in jail that me and my siblings never got, my aunt is dying from cancer and it seems like nobody out there is kinda caring. So advice on this anyone? Idkk what im even asking but just any advice on how to handle all this or just let me know you have cared bout this or w.e it just feels like I needed to tell anyone out there.

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Answer #1

sometimes life hits you hard. you just have to try not to get overwhlemed and try to take it day by day. you can only deal with so much, and let the est go. I know it seems like everything is falling apart.. but today isnt the rest of your life. try to enjoy the rest of your summer.. do something fun to take your mind off it. I don’t know if your a christian or not, but I always say God doesnt put anything on you that you cant handle.

Answer #2

The best laid plans of mice and men. Dont aim for perfection, you’ll just stress yourself out… Your friend’s problems are her problems. Listen and be there, but dont take them on personally. And once in a while, you’re allowed to take a break from her problems… The rest of it, just take it one day at a time. I know its a lot to swallow at once, but sometimes everything decides to happen all at once…

Answer #3

I feel your pain, and I’m sorry your summer isn’t going well, I really don’t know what to say, but try to comfort you… why not try praying? and asking God to take the stress and pain away… try taking a bubble bath, eating ice cream, watching a comedy - have a little “you time”! and just escape from everything once in awhile, hang in there hon! I hope things will get better for you =)

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