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how can I get my mom to stop seeing her anoyiing boyfriend that im sure that he will harm her and I dont want that for her.

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Answer #1

haha. this one’s always fun. I did the same thing with a few of my dad’s girlfriends. one bit of advice, though. DON’T LET YOUR MUM FIND OUT YOU’RE DOING IT ON PURPOSE. cause then she’ll just be mad at you. and stay with him. how often is he at your house? does he stay there all the time or is it just like before they have a date? if he’s there all the time, do little things (play music he can’t stand, stuff like that). it’s not a fast way of getting rid of him, but it’d be better in the long run if your mum didn’t know you tried to make him leave. now. if he’s not at your house a lot then you have to try a more drastic approach. forget all manners, get on the phone while he’s there and talk as loudly as you can. . . also, giving the occasional “I hate you” stare behind your mum’s back isn’t that bad either. he’ll get the picture. but make sure you’re actually doing it because the guy will hurt your mum. because you’re taking away her happiness if it’s just cause you don’t like him.

Answer #2

How do you know that he will harm her? Are there warning signs? Or is it just because you don’t like him. Your mom is a grown woman, she can date whomever she pleases. Just becuse you dont like they guy, doesnt mean anything. All you can do is tell her how you feel and talk to her about it. In the end your mom will make whatever decision she feels is best, and you should be happy if she’s happy.

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