last night he went to shuv it on up there and i didn't try to stop him, lucky it wouldnt fit and he gave up, but i dont want him to try again... help??
Tell him why you don't and stand firm about it. He should respect you and not hassle you about it. He may not "really" want it that much, it could have just been one of those "heat of the moment" kinda things. (I hope so for ya)
if you two are really in love you will be able to tell him that you dont want it however, you may not have wanted it because it hurt..in that case just use pleanty of lube (just saying in case you change your mind)
Just be honest and forward and tell him the truth... that you DO NOT feel comfortable doing anal and tht you dont want to. Just stand firm. He should respect your wishes. Just be honest, communication is key.
Tell him bluntly you do not want it. If he cares or is worth it at all, he will stop trying/asking for it/ pushing for it and in turn respect your wishes.
tell him he will never truly own you for all time as he can not obtain every hole in one night with you.
Gently tell him that it isn't what you're into
Just tell him that you don't want anal