Am I the only one in this situation?

My parents are control freaks. I am 17 and not allowed to do anything! The only reason im on the comp rigth now is cause im at my sisters house baby sitting, and I took the laptop my brother gave me (which is not allowed in my room, and I cant be on it for anything other then homework) I cant date, go out with friends, be at the mall by myself, drive, go on walks, go online, talk on the phone in privacy, talk on the phone for more then 15 mins a day with permission, hmmm… Cant go to scool functions, cant get a job, cant go to partys, cant do any school activities except for band (excluding jazz, and now marching) if my parents said I did somthing, if I dont respond I get in trouble for ignoring them, if I do respond, im arguing. Evrything I’ve dont wrong has been, according to my mom, because I hate her. I do things to get back at her. The worst thing I’ve ever dont is skip class! I dont drink or do drugs or steal, yet im their worst and biggest failure as a child. I have my college life and job mapped out, and since my mom wants me to go into medical, she will not support my dreams and ambisions and will find any waay to put me down. Very much a mind game player.

What can I do to keep myself from going crazy and handel them???