Am I the bad guy for not talking to him?

I had this former “best friend” who makes me seem like the bad guy when he actually is. He would call me stupid, say I would be a poor loser all my life with no money, and other mean things. I have known this person for years and he is gay. He text me this morning saying something which basically sums up to don’t call me or text me. Now, I did nothing wrong to him. I quit talking to him a few days ago when he made me mad saying I’m never gonna be somebody in life and all. I can ruin his life with information that I know but I probably won’t. My sister is still friends with him and I won’t talk to her anymore. Now, am I the bad person here?

Answer #1

Whoa wait…why in the world would I need to grow up? I am 19 years old. I’m insulted by that when he is the a$$. you try being around that idiot for a day and then you’ll go “oh wait…she’s absolutely right.” Try being in my position. Would you want to be friends with someone that constantly has to says mean things and do mean things to belittle you? NO! AND I NEED TO GROW UP?!

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