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Am I prude?

im 15 and last year I got my first makeout and since then I’ve only made out one more time. but everytime I’ve made out the guy has tried to go further but I would always chicken out and stop. the second time I made out the guy tried to finger me and I started to shake and got scared and left the room. my friend made fun of me but I ddint even know the kid so I would atleast want the first time to do anything beside make out with wuld be someone I like but yet I dont feel comfertable with my vagina im not the skinniest person in the world so I feel like my vagina is “fat” and I think guys are unattracted to that so if I do find someone I like to finally do something beside make out how shuld I make my self feel confident enough and not chicken out and be scared that he’ll be grossed out if he thinks my vagina is fat pleasee help. im almost 16 and I still have only made out . . nothing more ! =((

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Answer #1

I don’t think you’re a prude. And even if you were/are, there is nothing wrong with that. Just because everyone else seems to have gotten “further” doesn’t mean you should be doing that too. Do not do anything you are not comfortable doing, else you will regret it.

Answer #2

“im almost 16 and I still have only made out . . nothing more”

As opposed to some of your peers on this board and elsewhere, who seem to have given it away for free when they left 8th grade?

Have we gotten to the point where you’re a prude if you’re 16 and you haven’t let a guy put his fingers or various other appendages into you?

Here’s a thought: why don’t you tell these guys that instead of worrying about the size of your vagina, they should keep their f*cking hands in their pockets and wait until their voices stop cracking before they advance on a woman?

Good lord, people…enough already.

shakes head

Answer #3

dont do anything you arent ready to do…thats all I have to say…

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