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Am I being selfish???

In the past month or so I have lost my job and my licence, so I have no money and can’t go anywhere. I’m stuck at home and am slowly going nuts. My girlfriend comes around and will stay a night but will then want to go op-shopping instead of spending time with me, I absolutely hate op-shops, so no, I won’t go with her incase anyone suggests doing that. I just want to spend time with her and it seems like she doesn’t want to. I don’t know if she has decided that I’m not worth the effort because I can’t take her anywhere anymore. Am I being selfish? What should I do?

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Answer #1

(assuming this is who I think it is) what the hell, I spend heaps of time with you I usually stay over for around 2-3 nights in a row before going home and I rarely go op-shopping now anyway and then ill ususally stay home for a day or less and go back to your house for another 2-3 days you love drinking, I dont I love op-shopping, you dont I love op-shopping just as much as you like to drink its something I love to do and I dont really care that you lost your job or your licence youll get your license back and then we can do stuff its not really that long, and the whole thing is probably more hard on you than it is me because your used driving places im fine with walking somewere or riding or catching a bus or just staying at home with you I can do that for 6 months if you can and no your not being selfish but you need to realise that I really do love op shopping just as much as you love drinking it makes me happy, and thats were I get most of my crap (thats mostly good crap)

and besides, I went op-shoppping today because there was a sale and everything was $1 I got you about 20 pairs of jeans (and a pair of shorts) because I thought you might need some but if not thats ok because my stepdad is about the same jean size as you

Answer #2

if she is really in to you she’ll understand, tell her how you feel. I think the question is is she being selfish by not wanting to spend time with you and by not understanding you just want to be with her, you don’t need money to have a good time. Right at home watching a movie is great fun.

Answer #3

…well you probably dont need that many but I dont know what you like so I got you a lot to choose from lol

Answer #4

talk to her and tell her how you feel, but be considerate and listen to her feelings as well then take it from there

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