Am I being cheated?

I wouldn’t consider it cheating unless you have 100% proof that he wanted to be with or kissed another girl. him denying that he has a girlfriend means that he will probably cheat on you in the future. I think you should definitely tell him about this because even though he seems so comfortable telling you his password, he can’t commit to a relationship. show him you’re not the girl he can take advantage of and lay down the rules. I suggest you don’t rush into a relationship with this guy anytime soon. he doesn’t seem trustworthy. good luck!

thanks, so what should I do? :(

yeah, totally his loss :) Thanks, cupcake5.

thanks a lot, guys. I know I should dump him. but this is my first relationship. so I dun want it to be ruined just after 9 days. :(

Doesn’t sound good to me. I think if your chatting up someone online, it’s as good as chatting someone up anywhere. The same kind of thing has ruined many marriages and relationships all over the world. I couldn’t trust someone like that…it’s not right…it just leads to more trouble.

Well, I’d say that definately deserves some looking into. Before you get upset and curse him and say that you dont want to talk to him anymore, ask HIM what those messages were all about.

It does seem like something is going on though. Him saying he doesnt have a girlfriend. But still. go to HIM first. If you dont like what he says, then drop him. Or you could ask him straight out if he was planning on cheating. You’lll get your answer, and then you can make a decision if you want to stay with him or not.

he is so immature.. he cant handle a relationship.. ditch him before he hurts u.. hunny..thats not love.. thats just playing games, thats what he is doing to you.

okay well first it does take longer than 9 days to love someone. Another thing yeah what he’s doing is wrong. If you confront him he’s going to wonder how you know and could turn it on to you not trusting him, but your right what he did was wrong and he shouldn’t be doing that to you if you are going out especially saying that he doesn’t have a girlfriend. I would wait a little longer and see if he starts acting different and like sit him down and talk about your relationship and see if he confesses to anything but down come out like you’re accusing him of anything just talk to him. communication does a lot of relationships

thanks, cupcake5, so before I ditch him, should I make him jealous by hanging out with other guys? I’m really confused. :(

well it has only been 9 days so maybe he’s no 100 committed 2 you yet and that normal it takes a guy some time 2 get 2 that point. I think that if its just talking its ok but if it turns into something more like they want to meet up or sum well that means he really wants to cheat. I figured sum other recently that if you look 4 dirt you will find it. if I were you I would keep checking it like every other day or sum just 2 see if things get serious then move from there. hope things work out :)

yep, I would consider it cheating. Dump the guy, if he is doing this after just 9 days, then what is he going to end up doing if you stayed with him?!

Yeaa thats cheating

your his girlfriend & he denied that

so yeaa hes probably cheating

yup…he’s a cheater…

and I agree with princexx…that would really get to him…

thanks a lot, you guys. :)