Am I a nasty person?

its not that im horrible its just im in my teens which doesnt really help but my mum keeps getting the impression that im horrible and really nasty and its honestly not that I feel really bad over it and she said that she would feel sorry for the man that marrys me it really made me cry and I dont know what to do - I really dont want to talk to her about it I just want to know how I can make myself seem .. nicer??

Answer #1

LOL my mom says the same thing. I told her I feel sorry for my dad. I’m a teenager that’s why I act like this. WHATS HER REASON?

lmfao.

but then again, I’m a smart mouth. So if you don’t have that power over your mom like I do, don’t talk to her like that.

Answer #2

I dont think your a nasty person you actually sound nice to me its probably just hormones because they can make teens do crazy things at different times because thats what happens to me a lot and your moms wrong I think any guy would be very lucky to marry someone like you

Answer #3

My 15 year old daughter can be bitter and snotty at the best of times - she’s just a teenager, and so are you

Some parents have a hard time remembering what life was like when they were teens. That’s no excuse for your mother to treat you like that - that’s just wrong on her part - but try to be patient and don’t put too much faith in what she is saying. She obviously just doesn’t know how to deal with you.

Answer #4

Well, I don’t think your nasty at all. Your mom has a hard time understanding the change in you as a teenager. She doesn’t seem to know how to deal with the hormonal change that’s taking place. Its wrong on her part to treat you like this. If you can’t talk to her, talk to maybe one of your siblings, or your father, or maybe a close friend. You don’t need to change for your mom. Just be yourself. Its normal to be a teenager. In fact, when I was about your age or so, I’d always be smart mouth with my mom which I didn’t get away with because she always slapped me in the face for it. Your mom and mine, are kind of the same when it comes to not understanding. Now that I’m 23, I figured I wasn’t nasty as my mom thought, that I was just being a normal teenager. Your mom is expecting too much from you maybe and she just wants you to succeed . I know a man will want to marry you since you’re a nice person. Don’t let your mom say that men can’t marry you because of you’re nasty personality which you don’t have. Your mom forgot what its like being a teenager. That’s obvious. Good luck, and don’t let her get to you.

Answer #5

I dont know I think you should give acomplement or thomthing

Answer #6

I had a bad mother she did was to want me to feel worthless and im in my thirties now and it still affects me how she treated me the best advice is that I can give you is get this person out of your life as fast as you can?

Answer #7

your mom has expectations of your behavior and becomes concerned when your actions fall short. She obviously wants you to succeed in life, or she would allow you to do whatever you wanted. It’s called parenting, and there is no easy way to do it. You just have to be right more than you,re wrong.

 You obviously have a conscience of your own, what is it telling you?
 When making your decisions, always think long term and always ask yourself if it's safe.
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