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All fair in love and war???
This guy I am totally crushing on is married. I know this because I have noticed his ring and a mutual firend told me. He flirts with me everytime I see him and even says cute things like, “I would love to see you again.” and “I’ve been missing you.” Even said “I Love talking to you”. And when we around eachother we are never alone and he displays his flirty behavior infrount of others who are aware he is married. He has never told me he is married or even talked about his wife or children. Are these signs that he is really interested in me? I have no clue. But the more I am arround him the harder I am falling.
After reading your post I gotta say: slow down. This guy might flatter and flirt at every opportunity, but that doesn’t necessarily mean he’s interested in you. It could be completely innocent; something exciting to blow off steam. It could also signify problems in his marriage, but for all you know, he’s just in it for a little female attention.
Has he said anything more than what you typed? Because if not, there’s a possibility you’re blowing things out of proportion. That could be why mutual friends aren’t very surprised at his behavior. Maybe it’s normal for him. When you’re “crushing” on someone it’s very hard to look at things objectively, but that’s what you need to do.
What else do you know about his family situation? Can you find out more? Does he always hit on you? Have you asked your friends their opinion? Does he flirt with others? How often? What more do you know about him? His past relationships? How well do you know him? How long have you known him?
It’s embarrassing, but you should confront him. Ask him what he’s trying to do, or if he likes you in a non-platonic way. It’s the easiest method for finding out his intentions. If he’s offended, just apologize. It’ll be awkward at first, but things will soon return to a more distanced normal.
But hold on; let’s say he does have feelings for you. Yippee, right? Wrong. He’s married. Any relationship you have will be based on a lie, and statistically speaking, most men don’t leave their wives for their mistresses. If it turns out that he returns your feelings, he should care enough not to make you the “other woman”. You can always wait for a divorce to finalized. But again, proceed with caution. Don’t break up a marriage over a guy you only like, it’s a sure trip to guiltsville.
If he’s not willing to leave his wife, is only interested in a fling, or makes a move without discussing either option, it’s up to you to decide what you feel comfortable with, because it’s you who’ll have to live with it the next day.
Bottom line, I say a guy who’s willing to flirt with you while wearing a wedding ring and in front of people who know his wife, isn’t good boyfriend material. Feel flattered, but try to set up some boundaries. Avoid or confront this guy, but by all means, don’t ignore the problem. Even if you’re wearing rose colored glasses and are misreading his intentions, you need to know that know. Unrequited love sucks.
-King
ok…
let’s stop a moment. He’s married. as in, he’s made a promise and commitment to another lady, and he should, if he was a decent human being, stick to that promise!!! The fact that he’s openly wearing a ring AND flirting with you says something big. He doesn’t give two cents about keeping promises…
Is this the kind of man you want to get involved with? sure he seems nice now, but look what he’s doing to someone he’s married to! He’s married and he’s flirting. My advice, girl, is to stay away.
Besides, do you want to be “the other woman” in his marriage? My goodness…you can do better. stop this before you end up hurting his wife. she after all must be in love with this man too, and probably has no idea what is going on…why would you willfully hurt someone else?
please consider this. ok? be smarter. I know you might “love” this guy now…but also consider what type of man would willingly flirt behind his wife’s back.
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