Should I tell my Mom that my Dad is having an affair?

I think my dad is having an affair, well actually I no he is. please dont ask how.. I just need to no if I should tell my mom..

I dont want them to get a divorce =(

Answer #1

you need to have the evidence first before you say or do anything but yes if you dont and she finds out that you knew then she might blame you too and you dont want that have her take you some where quite when you get the proff and tell her she will thank you and then maybe they will work every thing out

Answer #2

I sorta scared to tell my dad, I dont no how he will react.

Answer #3

awe! your welcome! =D

Answer #4

I talk to my dad about it and he did not like yell or anything he took it very well and we also went to therapy and that helped a lot. so you guys should totally go to therapy. me and my dad are still very close. =D

Answer #5

my dad also cheated on my mom before she passed away so I know how you feel. but tell your mom! I didnt want my rents to get a divorce either but it was for the best. but before you tell your mom ask your dad and try to get the real story cause you never know

Answer #6

wow, thats great.. you really helped. =) thanks soo muchh!!!

Answer #7

I was actually in this situation before as well but I didnt do anything about it. now they are divorced. so I definitly think you should sit down with you dad and casually talk to him about it. tell him how much he means to your family and that you dont want anything to change. best of luck!

Answer #8

Simply a Rose to brighten your day, And maybe lessen the cares in your way; And also, too, to help you to know, That in knowing you, many others grow!

  I, personally, don’t think you should tell your mom. First, because she may already know and you telling her that you know may interfere with her plans. Second, because if she doesn’t know you would be forcing her to have to deal with something she is not prepared to deal with.

If you “have” to do anything, I would discuss your knowledge with your father and see what he has to say. His realizing that you know may help him to end the affair.

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