I cutmyself again because of a fight we had whit my mom

Ugh! I dont know what to do! I mean I’ve tried everything! I cutmyself again because of a fight we had whit my mom, and no it wasent because im a teen and every teen fighs whit mom, its because she just dosent think well. Im not mean in just saing the truth. Sience I was little my mo trated me like sh*t! When I was small she use to hit me whit tick sticks and then when I grew up a little and was old enuff to tell somebody she started hurting me emottianally. She tells me she curses the day I was born, and I curse the day she was ever elected my mother! See I dont start anathing she does, I get home from school and she starts acting that way and then when I leave I have to go to school whit the fight that we had! The fights have gotten abusive, and is just that I hate her! I have a hate towards her that I cant describe! I dont know what to do! Im thinking of runnig away or meaby even not living! I’ve got no sopport! Please! What do I do!

Answer #1

Don’t cut yorself baby girl..

Your not your mum…she obviously hates herself…your not her…your beautiful,mature,strong,intelligent…and women like that don’t put up with cutting themselfves…okay your too good for her…let time pass…youhave nothing to prove..you don’t have to demand anyting from her…learn to be self sufficient…and let time pass…till you move out of the house…because it ain’t worth it…all the tears,pain,cuts…and worth s*hit…you hurting no one but yourself.

Answer #2

That must be really hard for you. I grew up in a pretty normal healthy family, so I can only imagine what that kind of pain might be like. I will tell you one thing. It will get better. Don’t even consider taking your life, that’s for the weak and I know you are strong for putting up with this for so long. I know you are tired of it and you want to just give up, but don’t. Fight for your life, for your emotional health, and for your happiness. In the end, all any one has is themselves. Learn to love and support yourself even when it seems like no one else does. Talk to a counselor at school. They are there to help you.

Answer #3

OK…lets see where to start.

Have you tried tlkin to someone else about this?

because instead of running away an not living at all there is other things you culd do. I’ve been in situation.

I don’t want to offend you, but after fight with you mom go and pray to god. get down on your knees in a quiet place and pray to him. Trust me he will help you out. god will not give you anything you cant handle.

Try tlkin to someone you can trust and know that they can help you out. because in the long run you will be glad you did instead of running away and not living.

Answer #4

hey gurlii, do not take your life cuase of a fight and the past im sure there is somethin else you can do than kill ya self… I noo what you mean by havin a fight wit ya mum cuase I just had I major one like 1 hour ago and it feels awfull and I felt like killin my self too but thats just a part of life you cant take streess real well I no I cant cuase yah stay stronge love qwerty

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