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I was adopted when I was a little baby and im 13 now, and I was just wondering if theres any way to find my birth mother and father… If theyre even still out there…

Me and my adoptive parents do NOT talk about my birth parents… At all… So I dont feel like I can ask them. So if theres any way to find them, or even figure out who they are… Please tell me!

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Answer #1

I think you shud wait until ure a bit older too.. I mean your adoptiv parents mite nt neccessarily take you seriously at dis age bt mayb when ure 16 - 17 (o older) dey most probably wud start takin your concern seriously and help you find your birth parents. and if really really want to find out your birth parents you shud try tellin your adoptiv mum abt it. (mums are generally better at dealin wid emotional stuff) bt you shud also think abt how shed fyl I guess..

Answer #2

Before you pursue something like that, consider how it may affect the people that raised you and love you. Also consider that your birth parents probably don’t WANT to be contacted by you.

Answer #3

When you’re 18 you can ask for papers regarding your birth parents.

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