What do I do if your ex acts like a jerk everytime?

Me and my ex has been together for a year and 9 months and we broke up 5 months ago cause things were just getting complicated between us so it was a mutual break up kind of thing.

We made this promise to each other that if we still have feelings for each other in two years time we’ll be together and we’ll see how it goes from there, but for now we’ll just go our seperate ways.

So i leave my ex alone and let him fo his own thing, his been having different girls after me and I really didnt care except for the first time cos the night we made that promise he was with that girl and he didnt even mention her to me at all. So yeah but after those I let him do anything, he comes back to me after he breaks up with them, and as a fool as I can be I comfort him, listen to him and we kiss and say things to each other.

Well I have enough. I was actually moving on and was getting close with this new guy ive met, and my ex went balistic (this was after when he just broke up with his other girlfriend.) When my ex so how close me and this guy was he went balistic, stormed off and made a public scene and made loads of problems in one day, it was my worst day ive ever had in my life.

After all that drama he got a new girlfriend again after I comforted him and calmed him down and all that. So i told him im cutting off everything, no more contacts, nothing not even the promise. 2 weeks after that my friends wanted a CD off me but y ex had it so we ended up talking. Bad Idea!

My ex told me he threw the promise ring I gave him in the river, cause he was so upset that he knows that there can never be an us. He went on from that and he kissed me. Its been over a month since that happened and I dont plan on speaking to him in anyway and he has a new girlfriend again by the way. But I just updated my status on facebook about God cause im a christian and all. And he putted his status to aim at me. He always aim at something thats important to me but not something directly at me which I find pathetic. I havent even done anything towards him ever but he always makes it out as if I was the one who hurted him, he cant even let me go!!

What should I do?

hmm, well even if you made a promise he has to understand the in 2 years is a long time, and no doubt there will be new romances in that time if you both broke up. you should only go back with him if you want to, if you like other people then your free to explore your options, after all thats what hes doing. however he seems to be really jealous if you see other people (without realising hes doing the same thing). and thats kind of controlling beahviour, which isnt good…he wants you for himself and doesnt want you to see other guys though thinks its ok if he sees other girls…not good. if hes still doing things like aiming a status at you hes clearly not over you yet and it may take him some more time before he finally moves on, untill then all you can realy do is try to avoid him and make it clear that youve moved on, so hes free to do so when he feels ready

Ok thats really helpful thanks, I’ll try to never run across him or talk to him :)

Why are you still in contact with him. Like it has been said “no contact” delete from all online communication, never take calls from him. Do not hang out in spots he does etc. etc. Untill you do this you are part of the problem not the solution. Good luck, Sue

We’re not anymore from this day on, but I dont know if i should still have contacts with his sisters and dad?? Cause its ony his step sisters that doesnt like me… and does that also mean I should delete my friends whose also good friends with him? Cause they all link to him but I dont wanna lose so much people in my life and let him live his own life while I completely get rid all of mine? That doesnt look right to me or is it?

No you shouldn’t have to break contact with your mutual friends, so don’t do that. He sounds to me like he’s wanting his cake and wants to eat it, too. He does what he wants to do, gets comfort from you when it doesn’t work out….yet, he doesn’t want you creating any new relationships with other boys. The drama queen stuff..”throwing the promise ring into the river”…well, that was said for effect, and might not even be true. He’s trying control you from afar….

Don’t let him use you for comfort…..when you’re in the same crowd, let him be the drama guy, while you remain calm and aloof. Don’t let him drag you into it….stay above it. It appears to me that he’s the one who’s causing the problems so let him handle them……on his own.

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if your ex is still a friend then you shouldn’t break content with him you should tell him how you feel about his behavior if you and your ex arent friends and he’s just being a jerk i would avoid him.

if your ex is still a friend then you shouldn’t break content with him you should tell him how you feel about his behavior if you and your ex arent friends and he’s just being a jerk i would avoid him.

ignore him! dnt make eye contact dont tlk to him act lyk he doesnt exsist

ignore him. not much else u can do when we act like idiots lol