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a Sickness peoples dont notice

you ever seen a Gay person ( no disrespect to gay). mostly boy who be like. “ yea I need a pad it that time of the month”. seriously what do you really need a pad for. we both know you dont. 99% of the time they be serious. I think it a sickness that peoples just dont notice. not being gay. but the parts where they think they got a female body. being gay nothing wrong with that. but you have to notice that your still a boy with a male body. and all it organs. now some might be Trans-gender. I don’t know if they have that monthly problem or not. but the gays who is a 100% boys. what would you even do with a pad. seriously. I think it a sickness where when peoples be gay. they dont notice how far they taking it. It ok to Like boys. if your boy. ( am not gay dont get the wrong idea). It ok to have sex with one if your a boy. but there limited to how far you can go. another thing I see is peoples hate gays. I dont have no problem with them as long as they dont try nothing funny. I don’t know if Gays girls do the same thing. like walk around with a fake ( you know). the whole day. I don’t know about that. but I still think it a ill-ness. when boy think they have girls problems. like my sister friend lil brother is gay. he said he might be prego. like for real are you kidding me. he 100% boy also. so they make it worst. how could think you can be prego IF your A BOY. I agree it a sick-ness that a lot of peoples dont notice. who agree?

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Answer #1

Sika, I’m not sure that he classifies as homophobic. He seems to genuinely want to know what the reasons are behind this (I’ll agree- odd) behavior of physiologically male people ‘pretending’ to have periods. He has some rather old-fashioned and ill-informed views on homosexuality, but that doesn’t classify him as homophobic. We can’t label everybody who doesn’t agree with that lifestyle as ‘homophobic’. It’s RIGHT for people to question different beliefs, lifestyles, lifestyle choices, religions, etc. It helps us educate ourselves and broaden our horizons. If we didn’t question anything, we’d accept EVERYTHING as normal, and pedophilia, bestiality, and necrophilia become everyday, acceptable norms and chaos ensues. :) I don’t agree with him on his thoughts that it’s a ‘sickness’- I definitely think that it’s something hardwired into their thoughts/emotions/desires and is as much a part of them naturally, as being straight is in me. Sickness implies that it is wrong and should be ‘cured’. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with homosexual or bisexual individuals (or trans-gender, or trans-sexual). I am curious, however, as Hedgecortha seems to be, as to why they would feel it necessary to fake menstruation as a male. It’s a bit weird, but maybe they think it makes them more feminine? It’s harmless, to each his own, and live and let live… and all that… but it still (for me) begs the question of why. :)

Answer #2

sika is right. people are sometimes grown into a body they’re not comfortable with. to make them feel “at home” they will say and actually do things that they don’t necessarily have to for their gender. you really ought to have some consideration for people like this. how would you feel if you were born they way you are now, BUT you always felt like you were supposed to be a girl ?? you can’t even IMAGINE the pain you would have to deal with, could you ??

FOR THEIR SAFETY THO, I don’t think they should say things like that publicly..unless it was clearly a joke. b/c there is a lot of people out there who don’t like that kinda stuff..and people would try to hurt them. IT’S NOT ME, BUT IT’S OTHER PEOPLE.

for the record : it’s not an illness. it’s a mistake one has no control over.

Answer #3

Sounds like you’re just trying to talk yourself out of your own sickness: Homophobia.

You’re “”ok”” with a boy liking a boy and a girl liking a girl… but you’re not ok with a boy acting like a girl and a girl acting like a boy?

What defines a man? What defines a woman?

If someone is trying to cross a gender line of course they are going to use gender definitions for the opposite sex! Even if they are preposterous or silly. It’s more of a statement than an actual belief.

Remember there are more than 2 genders out there, whether you want to recognize that or not.

xox Sika

Answer #4

Yea I agree it’s mentally a sickness beacause they feel like they are a girl but in reality they really have all the organs of a male so therefore they cannot get pregnant or have a period.

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