A little spice

How do I convince my female partner to have anal?

Answer #1

If you feel you have to convince your partner to have anal sex with you then you clearly know she is uncomfortable with it. Out of respect for her, don’t try to push her into doing something she is uncomfortable with. Lots of women/girls are uncomfortable with the idea of anal sex. If she is uncomfortable with the idea with full on anal sex, but is into the idea itself. I would recommend starting off with something less intimidating than a p*nis. Start with a finger and work your way up. But don’t try to push her into anything she is even SLIGHTLY uncomfortable with.

And put yourself in her position. How would you feel if someone wanted to put a d!ldo in you? As well, if you suggest fingering her anally, be open to her doing the same to you. Its only fair.

Oh and doing it when she is sleeping. Bad idea. That is rape. And she will notice in the morning when she wakes up and it hurts. Anal sex is not just for gay guys, that’s an outdated idea. In recent years it has become more acceptable. But your partner may feel it is a “gay” thing/desire. So be warned of that when you bring it up to her.

Answer #2

Sorry, but a lot of girls wouldnt consider that a way to “spice” things up. Maybe she could use a dildo on you, and see if maybe you wouldnt want to rethink that idea.

Answer #3

well have you even considered how much that is going to hurt her?? well it will a lot. I would suggest accepting that she doesnt want to and find something else exciting to do ^ ^… hope I helped and need further advice fun mail me ~kaitlyn~

Answer #4

ew. you can’t make her do something she doesn’t want to do. if she doesn’t want to do it then me a man, accept it and move on.

Answer #5

Agree with tinatodder4! You can’t force her to do something she doesn’t want to! Try other ways to spice up the relationship

Answer #6

sorry but anal was invented for gay guys and poopin lol

Answer #7

Buy a strap-on and let her do you first… if your reaction to this is HELL NO, then theres’s your answer…

Answer #8

do it when shes sleepin

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