Friends with this girl who just broke up with her boyfriend

Okay here is the deal. Im friends with this girl who just broke up with her boyfriend . She first called me crying b/c she was so depressed but I help her get threw it all. A few days later she takes my advice and goes on a date to get her mind off of her ex. a week later she ends up dating this guy and I soon find out from some friends of mine that this guy that she’s seeing has a history of hurt all of his other girl friends after hes done with them. Now I dont want to tell her b/c she is happ..now but latley we have been hanging out and I can tell she is not happy b/c when ever he textes her or calls shes always thinkin about something and she starts to cry. I ask her whats wrong but she says nothing. Everyday I ask her if he has been treating her good and she says yes. This springbreak I went on a roadtrip with her and its was so awesome. We talked for 5 hours straight without any music on or anything. I could tell she was happy hanging with me…even when we got lost . Lolol but on the way home she was quit and I couldnt really tell too much b/c I was driving but it looked like she was crying. I ask her if everything is alright and she just looked away and said yes. …I soon saw that she was text her new boyfriend. I hung out with her two nights ago at her house and ended up leaving around 2 in the morning. All we were doing was watching movies and talkg. Well here is where I want some advice from a girls point of view. she kinda knows that I like her but I dont want to come on too strong. I love this girl and I would do anything for her and she knows that. The thing I want advice on is do you thing I should tell her what I know about her boyfriend. how he plays all these girls. I really love her and I know she is happy but she just got he heart broken and I dont want to she her cry again b/c I kills me inside. What the hell should I do.

Answer #1

well ok . I think you should tell her about this boy and tell her your saying it because you really care about her and you dont want her to get hurt. and tell her that you care about her a lot and invite her out abit more and tell her you want to be more than friends and ask her about it then see if she will agree to be in a relationship with you.

best of luck Bee xx

Answer #2

You should first ask her if she wants you to tell her something about her new boyfriend and she promise not get mad at you? Once you tell her she might not take it easy because once you really love some one its hard to get over them.when you tell her try to make it sound not as bad because if she knows you kind of like her she might start to think that your only saying that because you want her for you.But the best way is to tell her and try to make her understand what herboyfriend does.

Answer #3

wow well first of all, she’s an idiot because getting a new boyfriend right after a break up is NOT HOW YOU DEAL WITH AN EX. tell her she needs time alone to get over him and move on, apart from ANY guys. if she doesn’t get over the ex, the next heartbreak is going to be even harder. and if you like her, WHY didn’t you go for it LOOONG AGO?! quit being an insecure little b!tch and step up to the plate and be a MAN, lol. but no seriously though, she needs to dump this new guy, move on from the last one, and only then after she gets over the ex can she get into another relationship. with you.

Answer #4

well oi3livion2789, my advice is that you be brutal about this, not forcefully brutal, but with words, tell her you know about her new boyfriends hurtful past and that you would rather not see her end up hurt in this relationship, tell her you love her, tell her you want to make her happy, just tell her the truth, im pretty sure she will realise sooner or later that you are telling the truth and that you really care about her.

best of luck, and sorry if my advice sucks I just woke up. <3

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