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A break, is it the best idea?

In the past month me and boyfriend have spent pretty much every day together. His friends were getting a bit angry with him for awhile because every time they asked him to hang out he blew them off for me. And now, hes having issues with his dad, about not talking to eachother enough anymore. I want to take a break from eachother for awhile so he can catch up on things with the other people in his life. He doesn’t want to take a break because I’ll be leaving for Alberta in two weeks and I’ll be staying there for three weeks and he says that that can be our break. But I know that if we hang out for my last two weeks here that I’ll feel guilty thinking that he should be with his family or friends. I want to spend as much time with him during my last two weeks because I love him so much and being away from him for only a few days is hard so I know three weeks will be even harder. But I don’t want to be selfish and hog him. What do I do? Should we go on a break? I’m so confused.

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It just sounds like he really is into you, but he needs to realise he can’t spend 100% of time with you he needs to think about his family too. You don’t have to go on a break, just tell him you care alot about him, or if you say “i love you” tell him that, but also explain to him they we need to just have some “space” not a “break” just some space. I am not sure what you should do regarding you leaving soon, but two/three weeks won’t be to bad, I understand its hard to be in this position. He may have some trust issues though it kind of sounds like, that is why he doesn’t want you to have your own time, he doesn’t want you to cheat on him. But thats just my opinion…

Jason

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