How can I deal with this?

I just found out that my 2 best friends are going to the mall tomorrow to work on a project. They are going with my crush and another guy. They know it bothers me when my crush goes places with other girls without me, and they both know that it gives me panic attacks, but they did it anyway. There are 6 of us that are really close but they didnt invite me or our other friend. He doesnt seem to mind, but its making me sick and all I can think about is my crush with my friends tomorrow. Should I be mad since they are going to work on a project? Should they have invited me or am I over-reacting? Please be honest my feelings wont be hurt if you say I am taking this too personally.

Answer #1

no you shouldnt be mad about them working on a project. you’re probably over-reacting, if they’re going to work on something then they may not need your help, they may not have wanted you to go so they could work peacefully. dont take things like this so seriously, theres really no need for it, if he’s the guy for you, he’ll ask you out, because relationships are never one-sided.

Answer #2

yea I guess youre right its just that it is not something that they have to do and I just thought of it as would it really have hurt to bring me to because I always bring them when I go somewhere with the guys they like… but you probably have a point its just that I was hurt that thy would go out with him without me.

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