How do I know if my "1st love" (he wasn't necessarily my bf) is going behind my back to mess with my cousin??

He already has a gf (its a devastating long story) and I think he will never change. He respects me a lot but I do not trust him. The reason this is bothering me is because he was the ever 1st person I kissed @ 19 and I felt completely attached to him. My feelings will never change for this man. Yes, he has a gf and i faithfully understand that. The thing that is bothering me is that my whorish cousin might go behind my back and mess around with him KNOWING how much he means to me. How do i catch them together? Do I have to start spying on my cousin now?

Answer #1

I really, really don’t want to make you feel crummy about this. But since you guys aren’t together, it’s really hard (and not quite right) for you to be snooping around on him. I can completely understand how much this upsets you and how much you don’t want them to be together, but the thing is, it’s not really your business anymore. He is not yours.. You have to let go of him. He has a girlfriend and he has moved on. Don’t waste your time on this.

x

Answer #2

Alright. That was my plan in the 1st place because I heard he’s cheating on his gf with other whores including myself…i don’t consider myself as one because i actually care for him but overall, i am just wasting my time and i don’t care IF he messes with my family member. she’s a thirsty whore and i’ll never spend my time with her. if they turn out to be with each other, i know a way to have them caught…btw i found some1 new that is true to me. thank you very much though!!!

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