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14 and never had a boyfriend

I know you would consider me ‘too young’, but I feel like a freak. I’m 14 and I’ve NEVER had a boyfriend. I hate it when all my friends brag on about ‘Oh, I’m gonna kiss him today. We held hands today. I’m going round his house. I love him so much!’ I front of my face when they know I don’t have a boyfriend. One friend even keeps asking me ‘Why don’t YOU have a boyfriend yet, eh?’ I don’t want her to be my friend any more. No boy has ever liked me and I’m so ugly. What can I do? :(

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Answer #1

girls are like apples on trees. the best ones are at the top of the tree.(great personality,good listener,really funny,etc.) the boys dont want to reach for the good ones because they’re scared of falling and getting hurt. instead they get the rotten apples from the ground that aren’t as good;but easy.(sluts who put themselves on display,the “popular” or “hot ones”) so the apples up top think something is wrong with them when in reality they are amazing.they have to wait for the right boy to come along;the one who is brave enough to climb to the top of the tree!someday every apple leaves the tree…

bottem line is,someday you will get a boyfriend,I promise. hope I helped x

Answer #2

oh dont worry! im 18 and I’ve never had an actual boyfriend. as time goes on you will realize theres much more things to be worried about. I felt the same way you did. then I got into high school and just hung out with a lot of diferent peole. Then I realized I didnt need a boyfriend because a guy would just tie me down and sress me out. You have to think about the possitivesof not having a boyfriend. fo example you can do whatever you want, flirt with whoever you want, you can hang out with guys. where if you have a boyfriend he will want you all to himself and not to talk or hang out with guys. but dont worry about that stuff your still young you got time just enjoy it now while you can and soon enough a guy will come to you.

Answer #3

dont worry about it… theres more to life than blokes

and your not a freak!1 Americans have a real problem with calling themselves a freak and everyone around them

so just ignore the peeps calling you a freak and dont even refer to yourself as 1 as it will blow the confidence right off your sholders

I bet your not ugly either!!1

Answer #4

You’re 14 and don’t have a boyfriend, it’s fine. Imagine how I feel at 20 and never had a girlfriend…

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