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So I have a friend, she’s cheating on her boyfriend of 10 years and the guy she’s cheating with wants to cut it off but to get with me. Him and I get along as friends, very well, recently he asked me out of town because he says he wants to be with me. I like him but I cut it off and made it clear I can’t talk to him anymore. He texted me out of the blue telling me, the offer still stands… It’s too tempting and I do miss his calls and texts. Is this just bad temptation? I know the answer, I just need someone to confirm it and remind me all the reasons of why this is wrong… lol (sounds dumb but I don’t mean to)

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Answer #1

Personally, I wouldn’t get with anyone who cheats or is an enabler of it. Shows a lack of character in a person. Not something good for a relationship. On top of that youd also be betraying your friend.

Answer #2

Do not get involved with this guy. He is a CHEATER and what makes you think he won’t treat you the same? Plus he’s your friend’s sloppy seconds. That’s gross.

Answer #3

I agree with Bathory and Iffy…………

.I would like to add that anytime there is dishonesty and sneaking around involved, it ends up causing nothing but troublesome emotions and turmoil for you and everyone else involved.

Guilt, uneasiness, worry just to name a few. It’s nothing but trouble for you. You did right when you cut it off with him…………don’t worry about him, he’ll find someone else to “work on” getting with.

Answer #4

If he will cheat with you, he will cheat on you!! A cheater is a cheater! You are worthy of respect and love, don’t lower your standards on guys like that! You already know all of this….ALWAYS go with your good instincts they will never lead you in the wrong direction if you listen to them.

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